Amaka is sharing her story to garner support as she has lost custody of her 2 children and her fear is that her predicament will be permanent if she does not speak out.
Below is a summary of Amaka's sad story....
Below is a summary of Amaka's sad story....
Amaka was a bright young medical student at the University of Nigeria Nsukka when she had to leave her university because she was being harassed by a cult member who wanted “to marry her”. The cultists were arrested and she was advised not to attend any other university in Nigeria due to the fear of retaliatory attacks by fellow cultists.
She moved back to Lagos where her loving family began making arrangements for her to relocate to Canada. During this time, she had a job at a hospital.
She moved back to Lagos where her loving family began making arrangements for her to relocate to Canada. During this time, she had a job at a hospital.
She met a Ghanaian “pastor” who claimed he had visited her house to visit her brother. They became friends and one day after night vigil, she ended up at his house because her estate gate was locked. He raped her that morning. After that, she was traumatized and stopped talking to him.
He kept stalking her to “forgive” him and convinced her that if she did not, she would be cursed. After years of waiting, her Canadian Immigration Application moved to the next stage when she forgave him. This convinced her that he was a powerful man of God and had some sort of supernatural influence over her.
Before she left for Canada, he assaulted her again - he then cut her and himself. At that time, he joined their open wounds and claimed they had a blood oath. He scared her by telling her that she or anyone she slept with would die.
When Amaka got to Canada, Chris continued to stalk her with incessant phone calls. At a point, she met up with an old crush, they made out (kissed) and kept in touch via the phone when he got back to Nigeria. She didn’t hear from him for a few weeks and then found out that he died. This traumatized her further and gave credibility to Chris’ claims about their blood oath.
Before she left for Canada, he assaulted her again - he then cut her and himself. At that time, he joined their open wounds and claimed they had a blood oath. He scared her by telling her that she or anyone she slept with would die.
When Amaka got to Canada, Chris continued to stalk her with incessant phone calls. At a point, she met up with an old crush, they made out (kissed) and kept in touch via the phone when he got back to Nigeria. She didn’t hear from him for a few weeks and then found out that he died. This traumatized her further and gave credibility to Chris’ claims about their blood oath.
For a reason she cannot explain, Amaka went to Ghana to marry Chris, she filed for Canadian Residency for him and also dropped out of school in Canada to move to Ghana to stay with him. Her parents did not know about her marriage or her move to Ghana. Chris used and abused her in Ghana including stripping her in public, beating her and more but still she stayed. She tried to leave a few times but always went back.
When they both returned to Canada after Chris’ immigration request was approved, he did not get a job but instead raped and abused her frequently. She was so disconnected from her family that she did not attend her dear father’s funeral because Chris allegedly threatened to harm their child. She lost friends including a close friend who loaned her $5000 to help she and Chris relocate to Canada from Ghana.
In addition, he embarked on adulterous relationships with other women. He was unable to read and write, yet, he launched a church which she technically co-founded. Over the years, according to Amaka, while trying to defend herself from his constant abuse, the Police has been called in and her husband managed to implicate her leading to her being arrested on multiple occasions.
She has managed to progress her education and keep steady jobs during their marriage. The couple has 2 children and based on Amaka’s account, Chris does not care about the children’s education and health. He was complacent and left their daughter in the care of a potential child molester.
Amaka was recently arrested after a fight with Chris and custody of her 2 children was awarded to her husband, she is trying to fight to get her children back. She needs support and funds for legal representation.
NOTE: Amaka's story is extremely long story and reader discretion is advised due to the graphic nature of Amaka’s experiences.
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Amaka has launched a Facebook Page to rally up support -
The Amaka na mumu. Why didn't she report to her Parents or her Brother when he raped her? Maybe she thought she could get something from him that was why she went to sleep in his house, claiming their gate was locked.....Ibo woman na wa!!
ReplyDeleteLARRY
Please if you don't have any thing to say keep quite and quite for ever. How dear you open your mouth to say something like that. To refer to Ibo woman. Your are a beast, I don't know which tribe you are? You will be a Boko Haram. From bush.
DeleteShe deserve support and encouragement, not abuse. Someone in government or the Presidency should pls intervene and help this lady
ReplyDeleteI don't belive Amaka story bicos her story is full of holes.Ibo people are 2 dobious.She's trying to get sympathy and money from d public.She's a fraud.These are d kind of people that make life hard 4 d real people that need help.
ReplyDeleteWe've not heard the other man's explanation. USA government is different from other part of the world where woman are underrated. Before a woman could lose custody of a child to a man here in USA, the matter has been weighed and judged accordingly because USA government is always in favour of women in dispensation of justice. This is not a country where u can flex muscle with a woman with impunity. Before a woman can lose custody of a child to a man here in USA........... WAO!, the man must have presented and established genuine, tenable and practicable facts against the woman because children and America as a country belong to women and a case involving children is considered a serious one and justice will never be perverted as far as a child welfare is concerned not to talk of two children. 98percent cases of this nature is always won by women. Pls Amaka examine urself
ReplyDeleteHer story seeems not right; Canada is the best place in the World where Woman rights are protected;You cannot abuse your spouse and go free. For her to loose the custody of the children to the illeterate and jobless husband; the maths do not add-up
ReplyDeleteGbam!
DeleteThe heartless Ghana man must be smoked out from his hidding place and dealth wit. What a wicked soul...Sorry my dear sis. Uche
ReplyDeleteNa her long throat put her for dis mess, did she seek help or advice frm anybody b4 she marry d man? not even her parent blessed d marriage so mk she carry her cross alone jor, yeye igbo ashawo she think say she will get money frm d man dats y she sleep in his house & lieing dat their gate is locked, ashawo igbo bastard...........dan
ReplyDeletei pray u find help
ReplyDeleteis a pitty , i pray some one helps her,
ReplyDeleteThis story is fucked up!
ReplyDeleteAmaka's story is true.there is no way the Ghana man would be given the custody of the chichichildren instead of being in jail. let her say the truth and God will see her through.
ReplyDeleteAre u sure this story is not a frame up.Amaka should rise up to her challenge since she choose to marry a rapist that confessed he loved her.A lot of things is hidden in this story,say the truth for people to contribute.
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