The mistake I made was to move into his house and he started sleeping with me whenever he likes as if we are already married. The thing is getting too much, even when am having my "monthly visitor" he will tell me to go and watch my body that he needs séx and I don't have a choice but to do it.
He says I must get pregnant before marriage but he has slépt with me for 1year, no pregnancy...
In fact, let me just confess that this guy want to kill me. His body is big and any time he climbs on top me with all his strength I use to have body pain after everything. But I need to get pregnant.
I'm 31. I've gone to hospital and doctors say am OK! But he has refused to go for his own check. Each time I tell him to do so he will shout at me and say if I can't get pregnant I should just tell him. Am confused!
My mum knows am living in this guy's house but my dad doesn't. Pls I need good advise.
What can I do to help myself?
That your Ibo brother want to use you for mOney rituals so better run for your life. TK
ReplyDeleteThe guy just dey enjoy free fuck
ReplyDeleteMa dear since u say u wnt 2 marry a rich man and u need 2 pregnant 4 him den u av knw option dan 2 endure d fuckin tinz ( koboko)
ReplyDeleteOboy u dey craze oooooo
DeleteDear, pls run 4ur lyf
DeleteJust endure my dear, money is sweet. Try and put enough Indian Hemp in his food when he is not around ang give him to eat so that his manhpod can be strong and you can get pregnant. Ms K
ReplyDeleteSince u are very interested in marring d guy and getting pregnant for him,and u have been doing it all to no avail,pls visit a very close friend to fuck and get u pregnant for him, becos as u can c..... He is not ready to go for check-up..... And u need d money........... CHARLES.
ReplyDeleteMust u marry a rich man , I beg make u allow d guy to enjoy him self b4 he use u for ritual
ReplyDeleteSMH
ReplyDeleteCommit everything unto God in prayers and consult your pastor for spiritual advice.
ReplyDeleteD guy go finish u wit f**k, u better run 4 ur life
ReplyDeleteMy dear,he is just using u, if d guy loves u he would hv gone for the checkup u asked him to go for but maybe he knws dat he has medical problem that why he don't want to any man that uses a woman like that and u both are nt married is nt ready for marriage so my sis run u will meet another who is to be ur husband that all
ReplyDeleteChei, this ms k na real pro u be o
ReplyDeletemy honourably advise to you is that has move away from that house, that house is not meant for you. just gather the little money you have and start up anything that can fetch you money,
ReplyDeleteLeave him alone he is of no use
ReplyDeleteI like u Hannah.. I have follow ur comment for sometime now. even in Vanguard. 08102863310
DeleteU dey eye girl for olufamous
DeleteMy dear ask God for forgiveness,then leave his house and always pray for yourself and him
ReplyDeleteChi please be wise an prayerful, money is not everything but it helps a lot, ama have to bring out some point to u, just to prove to u that the does not love u, he just want to use u as a baby factory. 1# if he loves u he will go to ur parent do the right thing n keep u lawfully. 2# if he loves u there won't be any condition like u must get pregnant. 3# if a man trully loves his woman when it come to issue of conception he will go to any lengt with her eg, hosppital visit seek spiritual help n all that. #4 your body shouldn't be his primary concern. And coming back to u chi, since u said u want to marry a rich man, have u thought of wht will happen if u guys get married n his businesses goes down? Or he went bankrupt, am a woman n I love money a lot money can NEVER buy u happiness. As a woman my own primary concern is my happiness which I don't joke with, ur happiness should be ur primarry concern n not the money. Most big women u see riding big cars going from one country to another n spening they way the want are not happy because the went after the money n forget about their happiness, everybody goes around their normal businesses but u don't know the type of fire that is buring each person under, please commit everything to God in prayers how are u sure that he is the right man for u? And let me tell u one thing if he goes for a fling with a girl outside n she comes back after 15 days that she is pregnant chi u are out of the house , he will send u parking because he has gotten what he want from someone else. Please be careful n make the right decision. BEE
ReplyDeleteNo be u say u be oga....an why u dey run.
ReplyDeletemove out his house first before anything, becos he don't love atall
ReplyDeletegot lots of confused ladies out here today and she is 1 of them she dosnt understand herself get a life for yourself 1st the rit man will value d life u got for yourself but all ladies do now is runs up and down and she is 1of them.na your choice
ReplyDelete1 place close 1 open.D man has enoph money so he need a sex maechine''run 4 ur life b4 u will be use 4 money""
ReplyDeletechi ur a thief and what ever you sow that u will reap why do u want a rich guy and ur a poor lady go and work for ur self and pls go back to ur formal boyfriend and start life again with him even if this guy marries u , u will never be happy in his house ur a lazy fool run wen u still have the chance to do that
ReplyDeletefirst of all say your real name i know you are yoruba why are you changing your name to chi yoruba and their lie this is yoruba way
ReplyDeleteTell him to do it from and always bend to the right while hitting u den u will get belle. Joe
ReplyDeleteGuess what? U are d next in line 4 his money rituals! If u dont run away 4rm dt house! Ty
ReplyDeleteWhenever he release on u, just take the sperm and get a cup of water full then place the sperm on it ok, just 2 check if he is ok... And if not just ping me ok 291ce7af...
ReplyDeletei will not advice u to leave him, u never loved him but his money. That is what u get when u make money your major priority in a relationship. Mind u, marriage is another institution and as such, be careful.If u actually had good plans for urself, u wouldn't have fallen into this mess and am sorry to say, u don't have a caring mother. Both of u are birds of the same feather
ReplyDeleteI wonder when some Nigeria ladies and women would truly believe in themselves. Your problem started from the point that you see yourself from broke family. The definition of "broke" is very strange to me because in Nigeria it is only associated with financial status. You might be financially ok but intellectually broke, just like your man if he is not how can he resist going for medical check up in the hospital when he actually needs baby.
ReplyDeleteWoman ! You need to wake up to the reality of life because something is sure you're not the only one on his radar of sex escaped and any other of your competitors can entice him with pregnancy from another man because of his desperation. So, your freedom is closely attached to your level of reasoning and ability to take the right decision. Wake up before he sucks you dry and throw the shaft away.
if he truely loves you,he would have married, and he knows that you are with him because of his money,so he just wants to get your sweet juice from you,and leave you empty and cold.so please love urself and not the money then run for your life,he doesnt even respect your body. SAVE YOURSELF
ReplyDeletecome chi let me get u pregnant for him.....you can call me when u are ready ok?...07065337590
ReplyDeleteI SWEAR
ReplyDeletechi to me that guy as something in mind. i understand that you need money to take care of yourself and your people, chi you can kill yourself just because you want to help yourself and your people. My advice for you live that guy and start up a new relationship. That guy did deserve you trust me.
ReplyDeleteYou know what u are doIng is not rigt that's why u did not tell ur father. You are not married so why are u in his house? u are not even supose to have sex until u are married, Go and stay in ur parent house the right person for u will come, but give ur life to christ first, He will complete everything in life for u.money is not everything. So go home and have ur peace before is too late.
ReplyDeleteALL YOU NEED IS GET BACK TO JESUS ALL SHALL BE WELL. YOU MAY ASK HOW? LOOK FOR A BIBLE BELIEVING CHURCH AND MEET TO PASTOR TO FIX THINGS OUT. WITH ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE.
ReplyDeleteWhoever boarded a car loaded with temptation, his destination is to land at the station of destruction.
ReplyDeleteYou can call me on this number 08035552589, i will do something for you, but it will be through sex for 7days, am very sure, u will surely get pregnant. Abbey
ReplyDeleteLeave the guy alone shekena###
ReplyDeleteLeave am
ReplyDeleteThat guy does not love you and like you said, you don't love either rather you love his money. if u eventually get pregnant for him, that's where you will see his true being. My dear, be wise cause you are not a kid anymore.
ReplyDeletechi i just want you to be wise that guy can not get you pregnant he only want you to feel pain and he use you as sex mate he cant get you pregnant i advice's you leave that guy before he kill you money is not everything!
ReplyDeletechi i just want you to be wise that guy can not get you pregnant he only want you to feel pain and he use you as sex mate he cant get you pregnant i advice's you leave that guy before he kill you money is not everything!
ReplyDeletechi i just want you to be wise that guy can not get you pregnant he only want you to feel pain and he use you as sex mate he cant get you pregnant i advice's you leave that guy before he kill you money is not everything!
ReplyDeleteMy dear you are a gold digger. You don't want to work or get something doing but you want money made by a man which you don't know how he made it and as such a very rich man, what are you complaining now, you got what you want enjoy the money now why are you complaining , idiot.
ReplyDeleteYou can't eat your cake and have it.You actually cause what is happening to you with you bad,stupid and greedy intentions.You are so daft to see the dangers involced when you have sex while on menstrual circle period,and yet you endured for a year.You better wake up from slumber and realize that he is only using you to renew his money at when due.So pray hard for better future after leaving him,because you might not be able t conceive again.You have learn your lesson,and make sure you advice ladies like you who intend to go for ready made like you call it.
ReplyDeletemy dear chi, u dont need a pastor to tell u dat d guy doesnt love u n u dont love him either. so am begging u plssssssssssssssssssssssss 4get about money pack ur things n leave dis man alone wit his money. u should also know dat God is not in support of ur relationship wit dis guy. so plss leave him n pray 2 God 4 ur man.
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