With this being said, sleeping together hasn’t been much of a concern for me. He has stressed the fact that this is a need for him, in which I do understand, but I’m not as sexually attracted to him as I was.
So, let’s fast forward a bit; five months ago I began a new friendship with a co-worker who had been pursuing me hard. I became aware of the fact that he had a lady (who he plans on marrying) once we started to get acquainted, and he knew of my situation. We would be temporary. We begin to get quite close over time and eventually became physical 2 months in (mostly kissing and sex only a couple times).
Feelings have started to brew on both ends to the point that we were falling for one another, but someone else came in to the picture: God.
One minute he’s telling me how he needs me in his life and he can’t let me go, and I’m his addiction. Then he’s making statements of him being disobedient to GOD. This little charade has happened about 3 times. What is this guy up to? Is he just telling me sweet words to continue to have sex with me?
Feelings have started to brew on both ends to the point that we were falling for one another, but someone else came in to the picture: God.
One minute he’s telling me how he needs me in his life and he can’t let me go, and I’m his addiction. Then he’s making statements of him being disobedient to GOD. This little charade has happened about 3 times. What is this guy up to? Is he just telling me sweet words to continue to have sex with me?
You are a cheap prostitute like many girls who are desperate to dump their boyfriend who doesnt have money for another guy who's ok. Continue to be his sex slave until he gets married. MUMU!!!!
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I dont see anything wrong with sleeping with ur coworker since ur boyfriend is not financially capable. Do ur thing my dear..... Ms K
ReplyDeleteMs.K that is a stupid thing to say!being a private prostitute to your co worker,AND YOU DON'T SEE ANYTHING WRONG WITH IT? re they not paying her? what does she do wit her own salary?the guy is just being a man "chopping" freely. Sharp man, hes about dumping her in the trash where she belongs that's why hes bringing God into the picture and d dumbass babe is too dull to decode. Guy carry go but pass her to another co worker that can give her peanuts 4 her dirty pussy. Ashwao bastard! KIM
DeleteKEZIE,YOU CAN ANSWER THAT QUESTION YOUSELF.
ReplyDeleteDumping your former Boy friend is improper. Leave this current 1 because he will not marry you and pray to almighty God to bless your former guy and say NO to sex.
ReplyDeleteA man who wants your body but does not need your soul cannot be your soulmate, if a man is focusing on gratfying his thirst for you by seeking treasures in between your legs , he will only use you long-term and discard you later, Sex is not about love and love is not about sex, sex only says two people are connecting with each other for gratification while love says two people will work together in unity, accepting each others rough edges and flaws gracefully, love has no definition but it has features and characteristics, if a man love you he will pray for you more than he prays for himself, the quality of the state of your mind with concern him, the man who loves you will respect your feelings, the man who loves you will see you beyond having, breasts , buttocks and a virgina that arouse him sexually but he will see a kindred soul in you , a friend of whom two can function for the race of life and not the race of sex. A man who loves you would see God as his priority point of contact in dealing with your stubborness and selfishnesss , avoiding any form of physical abuse or aggression.A man who truely loves you will always make you glow, keep your mind at peace and help you feel great, God bless you.
ReplyDeleteIsrael you are indeed a man of God
DeleteIsreal you've siad it all as the spirit lead you, God bless you.
DeleteShe's a cheap office ashawo.My advice to her is to travel to Italy where she can become a full time Ashawo and make some money.Wish her good luck.
ReplyDeleteGood talk @kim.wat kind of a person re [email protected]
ReplyDeleteGood talk @kim.wat kind of a person re [email protected]
ReplyDeleteGO BACK TO UR BOYFRIEND BEFORE ITS TOO LATE
ReplyDeleteAha!!!......at ur age u are still single,growup baby girl..he is jst using you to Satisfy his sexually urge!!!!....he can't marry you...d earlier u Quit d better for u!!!::Rita
ReplyDeletePls quit now and give your life to JESUS or you may end up in the dust bin of life.Also consider and DEEPLY REFLECT on the comment made by Israel.
ReplyDeleteLarry, this is my first time leaving a comment on this blog nd its simply bcos of ur foolishness....smh. Pple ar asking for advise here, nd all u can do is abuse them, u av no right to judge anybody. If ur mother asnt taught u to respect pple, especially women then u need to go back nd gv her some serious tongue lashing if possible a good slap in d face....pls treat pple as u want to be treated nd learn some manner. Olufamous I think its abt time u do something abt this evil spirit called larry
ReplyDeleteAll said and than, the Bible states clearly that thy shall not Judge so thy'll be judge too;she is bold to voice her problem out for solution why are you all saying all kinds of things to her.i can clearly see her soul is not at rest that is why she posted this worrisome issue on board please you guyz should better encourage than to rant over peoples problems.Don't you no that a problem shared is half way solved.Lady take hard but listen to the voice of God cry to him for he is knocking @ your door if u will only open him; better things will surely come your way.We are all sinners & ve short the Glory of God. God will make away for you.
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