April 10, 2012

MARRIAGE: 7 Types Of Women A Man Should Marry

I am going to give men a starting point for the types of women I feel are a good consideration to date (marry). We, as men, know the goal is to have a woman we can love, cherish, hold, and make our wife. Of course what I am about to list is no guarantee of a good woman, but should be used as a foundational guide of what she can look like emotionally, spiritually, mentally, and personality-wise.

Here are 7 types of women every man should date:
1. Submitted to God - If a woman is submitted to and passionate about living for God, she will be the same to you, assuming you’re a man submitted to God. There is something special about a woman who truly serves God.
2. A Selfless Woman - A selfless woman will understand the importance of working together, sharing, devotion, and commitment for the right reasons. Her motives will be to help make life a little better for you. She will understand that dying to self doesn’t mean she does not love herself.
3. A Simple and Low Maintenance Woman - A low maintenance woman tends to be focused on the truly important things in life. I’ve found them to be non-clingy, very rational, and supportive. She won’t care about how much money you have or don’t have. She will like you for who you are and is not looking for what you can do for her. She accepts you freely because she is comfortable in who she is. She is more about becoming a better woman than just appearing to be a good woman.
4. A Woman Who Can Truly Be Your Best Friend - Friendship before love is always best before a serious relationship.
5. Emotionally Stable - This type of woman understands God gave her emotions and instincts to give man balance. She understands emotions are never used as a decision making tool, because emotions can lead you outside of the will of God. The devil drives us off a cliff using emotions and God gently leads us with wisdom.

6. A Loyal and Patient Woman - She is with you through the good and the bad. She’s there if you’re rich; she’s there if you’re poor (if you have 2 cents, 2 dollars, or 2 million dollars… makes no difference). She is right there cheering you on and helping you to be great. She will not be looking for other men, because all of her attention is with you. She will uplift, support and encourage you.
7. A Woman with Character - This should go without saying, but I will add this (and this type should really be the first thing you consider for any woman). She must be of a woman of good character. Without character, it will be difficult to even build a strong friendship.

Character is what we do when other people are not looking, but God always knows what we are doing (e.g. A woman who will still entertain men, giving out her number to other men, etc… is not serious about a courtship leading to marriage and it speaks to her character). How she will honor and respect the relationship as you grow together when you are not around speaks volumes about her character.

By Quentin McCall
[7 Types Of Women Every Man Should Date]

16 comments:

  1. HOW MANY LADIES OF THESE DAYS WILL PASS THIS EXAM? WHEN THEY ARE ONLY INTERESTED IN A MAN'S POCKET? They must be very very few. Mrs. OJ

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    1. So Mrs. OJ Na your husband pocket u marry? Na wah o!!!

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    2. My dear be careful. I got married many years ago when all this flashy things doesn't mean anything. Ur generation has spoilt many things

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  2. Marriage is a very serious business and any man who doesn't consider this fact important before marriage might not be doing justice to himself.

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  3. Women have too maany problem and I don't like them. Kalu

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    1. Mr kalu why do you dislike women?

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  4. Kalu u dey craze for head go see your doctor. Bums

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  5. @kalu u alwaz whs bad 4pipz Nna y nah?

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  6. So how do women know the right man to marry too? ENDURANCE

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  7. Our generation is in deed a spoiled one, we hardly find dis character among our ladies today. Dey ar d ones setting d pace of corruption in our society just as dey did to our fore-father Adam, dey will nevr change but dey might pretend, just get dem as wives n bear children just to fulfil our Africa traditions. Frm Daniel PH, Rivers.

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  8. what about food? u need a woman dat can cook good food.

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  9. So, what are the 7 types of men women should look out for.

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  10. As for me,Na from no 1-6 i go adhere to but no 7 is for someone am courting, so as far as am not courting u men i go put my pin for face book self

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  11. only a Nigerian man will come up with something as daft as this...you make women sound like objects

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  12. What you see in your woman (wife) is what you get. If you see 'godfearing, obedience, character, selflessness, not-materialistic, etc in her' that is what you will get. If you see the opposite, ofcourse, you will get. NJC.

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