I need advice from women who have passed through my situation before and how they got out of it. I have cried in the past but I have stopped crying. I would have loved to tell you my names because you know me. But I do not want you to feel sorry for me.
Ladies have a million and one secret you don't know. I call them the world's secret. I am only two months old in my marriage. I married a man i do not love.
Ladies have a million and one secret you don't know. I call them the world's secret. I am only two months old in my marriage. I married a man i do not love.
Please don't criticize me. All my young cousins are married. My mother kept pestering me, the society won't let me be. I got almost fed up with life even though I am a successful lady taking up few family responsibilities.
I regret every action i have made. If not that i am pregnant, i would have walked away damning all consequences. I can't stand his touches. Our sex life is WACK, SMELLS, IRRITATING. My life has become more miserable. We fight every day. I told him to let us live separately and pretend to people things are fine but he refused. God help me have this baby in peace. I need to LEAVE his apartment. The apartment we got together.
We had a huge argument recently, and O am planning to run to England during Christmas and might not return. I don't have a stay but i am determined to mess with my passport to get out of his sight and that of my family (my mom). Thank God my brothers are supporting me in this. Including the born again one among them.
The truth is I need help. I used my own hands to scatter my life due to family and societal pressure. If you have gone through this before, please tell me how you got out of this HELL.
Shut up old cargo. You're just been arrogant probably bcos u have money than the guy u got married to..... Even if he smells, Marriage is for better for worse!!!
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Larry why cant you behave matured for once.Why are you like this.You dont know what she is passing through so dont rain abuses on her
DeleteFind ur level if the guy is not good enough. Period.
ReplyDeletePls write to my mail on facebook and lets talk [email protected]
ReplyDeleteMy dear we all make mistakes in life.There is nobody that doesnt have a secret.If you are not happy in your marriage,pls pray to God for direction.I wish you all the best
ReplyDeletePlease take it easy, its not the end of the world. am sure things will workout. mail this guy i think he can counsel you and give you the right advise on what to [email protected]
ReplyDeleteThere's no pretence about marriage.The truth is you're not happy,my dear my advice to you is you can only find happiness in you and nobody can give you that.Don't remain depressed and unhappy.Its upto you because even pregnancy itself can cause depression expecially when you have your own thing doing.Babe pray for God to show what to do.Basically,today marriage majority of the women don't love their husband,I can belt you for that.We also marry for different reasons,yours maybe different from mine but we all aspire to building a home.you don't want to end up as a single parent.Kelechi
ReplyDeleteYou are ashawo proper and can't get married to one guy bicos you have been used to fuck and suck so many dicks at a time.Just move to Italy instead of London where you can become a full time prostitude.Ashawo bastard.Good luck to you in your dirty life.
ReplyDeletebabe ma kindy advice 4 u is dis,i dnt knw hw lng u guys dated sha bt,4rm ur story u say u wre 2months pregnant.al u need is tme 2compos urself an learn 2lov ur husband.soner or lata u wil get ova dis boredom,jst try 2 improvise ways 2blend wit dis guy.bt on d contrary if dis dos'nt work jst b patience 4d nex 7months 2dliver his baby 4him an file in divorce.Note if u ar a xtian an u wed in d church no mor mariage xcept u com bak 2him.4any oda bliv or religion or court mariage u can get marry againt.so both of u wil b free an stop hurtin each oda ego.cos mariage cul b a bondage at times.dnt mind dos calin u names dey2 av thre own wahala.Inedu
ReplyDeleteYou see the mistake has already been done. Your case is that of marriage out of pressure. Why on earth did you have to yield to pressure? Of course, those who pressurized you are no there to live the marriage life with you. Now you are not satisfied because you haven't brought your heart in the first place to accept your husband as your own. You must know that there is no perfect man in the whole wide world. You talked about smelling, what? can't it be ameliorated? I think rather than trying so many men, I will advice you to see your pastor or Imam for counsel which you ought to have done in the first place before venturing into marriage. Unfortunately, many churches/mosques do not take marriage counselling too serious which is why we have lots of breakages today. The responsibility marriage calls for is enormous and the fact that there is a seed coming between you too is what you must please, try as much as possible to live with and decide whether or not you will want your child to come up as son/daughter of a failed /broken marriage or not.
ReplyDeleteGiven that your relations and Brother who is even born again have accepted that you should run away, it shows that you are still living under the control of other people. When will you be a woman of your own for God sake? The same pressure you yielded to that has brought you to this mess, is what you are still yielding to thinking it will take you out of this supposed mess.Let me conclude by asking you, what is your aim in life? What will become of you after the break? Do you think you won't find a worst man after this experience?
Pressure is not a reason to get married.......period. No more words
ReplyDeletePlease anonymous 10:12 has said it all.
ReplyDeletepls my dear u do not ve to work away for this reson u can take care of this ur self just try and makeup the guy to ur test.
ReplyDeleteu also need to pray to GOD. Read the book of Heb 13:43,Prov 18:22,Gen 2:21-23,Mtt 19:3-6, Sirach 7:19.