My name is Chidera and I am in my late 20’s, a single mother to a 7yr old daughter and to the glory of God, I own my business. I have been in and out of relationships that have not been productive and I think that at this stage the only thing that is left for me is marriage.
I met a guy recently who is not only my tribal guy but also from a neighboring village. He is also into business and he works in a pharmaceutical company. He is also a single father to a 7yr old boy.
We have been dating for quite some time now and we are considering marriage but there is a big problem. We both share the same genotype, we are both AS. He was once married and the marriage produced two wonderful boys. After some years they both had to part ways. The reason for his breakup with his ex-wife was because they share the same genotype AS.
Among the sons she gave birth to, one of them was SS, though the child is dead now, but the lady’s parent totally disagreed to the union and asked them to both part ways, which they both agreed on. The point now is that we share the same blood group and we are looking forward to tying the knot, and I don’t know if I should go ahead with this marriage because I don’t want a situation where we will be asked to part years after we have spent time together as a couple.
But he said he is positive that the only thing we need to take into consideration is that we won’t have too many kids.
If a couple that are AS do not have many kids can prevent them from having SS kids?
I am confused.
Among the sons she gave birth to, one of them was SS, though the child is dead now, but the lady’s parent totally disagreed to the union and asked them to both part ways, which they both agreed on. The point now is that we share the same blood group and we are looking forward to tying the knot, and I don’t know if I should go ahead with this marriage because I don’t want a situation where we will be asked to part years after we have spent time together as a couple.
But he said he is positive that the only thing we need to take into consideration is that we won’t have too many kids.
If a couple that are AS do not have many kids can prevent them from having SS kids?
I am confused.
Why are u in a hurry to get married when u already hav a daughter? My dear enjoy ur life biko.... Ms K
ReplyDeleteIt is better to marry and not having children because having children, you could be unlucky to be producing SS and be lucky to produce AA or AS. Better pray to meet someone that is AA so that you will laugh best.
ReplyDeleteMy sister continue to pray to God dat such a tin should not be ur portion if u ve d believe their is nothing God can not do I pray ur own situation we change totally just continue praying to God dat is my advice for u?God be wt u.Fash 4rm Allen Ikeja.
ReplyDeletepls dont do it is not worth the stress
ReplyDeletePlease my dear sister 4get about the relationship and find another husband here are thousand and one men outside there or else u wl regret it
DeleteAs a Genetics n Cell Bio graduate, it is a 50%-50% chance for every preg u hav to hav a SS baby. So it is not abt having many children but rather abt luck for every preg u hav not to be a SS carrier.
ReplyDeleteWit God, noting is impossible. Now as me n not as a Bio student, i wil advice dat sinc u guys already hav personal babies dat u give just one preg chanc n u get very very very prayerful to be lucky wit d chance. Sinc u guys lov n understand urselves. I wish u gdluck. We can get to talk more on my e.mail [email protected]. Gd luck. O.A.K
my dear there is nothing God can not do but it all depends on ur faith and personnal relationship with Him, out side that, it does not worth the stress, except u have made up ur mind not to have child for him, if not be prepared to bury ur children one after the other. Ugo. I.
ReplyDeleteWOMAN NO! NO! NO! IS THE ANSWER.DON'T TRY IT..........
ReplyDeleteWhy do you want to tempt God when you already know the answer. NO! NO! NO! NO! NO! NO! NO! NO! NO! NO! NO! NO!
ReplyDeleteThe best bet is PLS do not.So much pain attach to it.Trust me because I have a friend that is caught up in the same mess.Till date you find her unhappy because she didn't listen to people advicing her against her plan.Adding to that,her son has went into "Coma"couple of times.Retink your thought and be wise.
ReplyDeleteTry to understand the situation although you may be luck to have 3 children and none of them will not be ss and sometime you may have 2 and they will be ss. Pls try to follow your heart God is in control.
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Pls don't do what u will regret leta!!!u no d rite answer don't marry him,or can u stand it seein ur children die in one afta d orda? Pls don't do what u will regrey wait and God will give u dat which u deserved as a husband tank u
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