"I didn’t initially understand what was happening. All I knew was that my husband was always at loggerheads with my daughter," said Mrs. Afusat Ogunrinde.
Lagosians present at the Oshodi Grade 'B' Customary court on Monday were shocked beyond words when a middle aged woman, Afusat Ogunrinde, told the court how her husband, Ibrahim, has been trying all he can to sleep with her teenage daughter, Sidikat.
“There was a time I travelled and when I got back, Sidikat complained to me that my husband woke her up in the middle of the night and asked her to take off her pants and face the wall. I was shocked.”
Afusat said she confirmed her suspicions when an incident happened in her presence. She said, “We stay in a one-room apartment and there was this day Sidikat suddenly screamed in the middle of the night. When I woke up, I saw my husband close to where my daughter slept.
“When I challenged him, he told me he was pursuing a rat and that the rat climbed his feet and ran towards the place where Sidikat slept. I took the matter up with him and since then he became more quarrelsome with her.”
When asked about the authenticity of her mother’s claims, Sidikat told the court that her mother's husband had sexually harassed her. Sidikat said, “All what my mother said is true. When I refused to give in to my stepfather’s advances, he started persecuting me.
“At a time, he would pour water on the bed when I was fast asleep in a bid to put me in a bad light by accusing me of bed-wetting all because I didn’t allow him to sleep with me.”
Afusat said she had to send her daughter packing due to the development. Besides, Afusat told the court that Ibrahim had also threatened to kill her and urged the court to dissolve their 17-year-old marriage, which is blessed with three children.
She said, “He has gone weird of late. He beats me up and would not stop until I get wounded. One night, he came back home drunk, gave me a knife and asked me to kill him. I had to run out of the home to save my life. My life is endangered and as far as I’m concerned, this marriage can no longer stand because it has already broken down.”
Meanwhile, Ibrahim denied making advances to Sidikat but admitted battering his wife. He said, "I took Sidikat as a daughter and would never try to do such a thing. It looked like I was persecuting her because I wanted the best for her.
“Trouble began between me and her when she and my first child altered their school report cards and I tried to correct them. I beat both of them and I was surprised that she rebelled and despised me. Since then, we have been living like cat and mouse in the house.”
Ibrahim added that he battered his wife because she was cheating on him, an allegation which Afusat denied.
After listening to both parties, the acting Court President, Mrs. R.I. Adetola warned them to maintain peace pending the determination of the suit. The case was then adjourned till June 16, for further hearing.
Afusat said she confirmed her suspicions when an incident happened in her presence. She said, “We stay in a one-room apartment and there was this day Sidikat suddenly screamed in the middle of the night. When I woke up, I saw my husband close to where my daughter slept.
“When I challenged him, he told me he was pursuing a rat and that the rat climbed his feet and ran towards the place where Sidikat slept. I took the matter up with him and since then he became more quarrelsome with her.”
When asked about the authenticity of her mother’s claims, Sidikat told the court that her mother's husband had sexually harassed her. Sidikat said, “All what my mother said is true. When I refused to give in to my stepfather’s advances, he started persecuting me.
“At a time, he would pour water on the bed when I was fast asleep in a bid to put me in a bad light by accusing me of bed-wetting all because I didn’t allow him to sleep with me.”
Afusat said she had to send her daughter packing due to the development. Besides, Afusat told the court that Ibrahim had also threatened to kill her and urged the court to dissolve their 17-year-old marriage, which is blessed with three children.
She said, “He has gone weird of late. He beats me up and would not stop until I get wounded. One night, he came back home drunk, gave me a knife and asked me to kill him. I had to run out of the home to save my life. My life is endangered and as far as I’m concerned, this marriage can no longer stand because it has already broken down.”
Meanwhile, Ibrahim denied making advances to Sidikat but admitted battering his wife. He said, "I took Sidikat as a daughter and would never try to do such a thing. It looked like I was persecuting her because I wanted the best for her.
“Trouble began between me and her when she and my first child altered their school report cards and I tried to correct them. I beat both of them and I was surprised that she rebelled and despised me. Since then, we have been living like cat and mouse in the house.”
Ibrahim added that he battered his wife because she was cheating on him, an allegation which Afusat denied.
After listening to both parties, the acting Court President, Mrs. R.I. Adetola warned them to maintain peace pending the determination of the suit. The case was then adjourned till June 16, for further hearing.
I dont blame the man its bcos they are staying in one room together. It is possible. Kalu
ReplyDeleteWho's this fool? ' I don't blame the man' u are more sick than he is, idiot!!
DeleteThat husband must be desperately sick. Unless the wife is not performing her duties.
ReplyDeleteHe should be ashamed of himself as na small girl he want to rape. Mumu man!
ReplyDeleteDatz d cross of d woman!! Wtsoeva GOD hs join 2geda let not court put assunder since d litle girl re nt bological to d man, let d wive found a place for d girl to live: now they re four in one room, but dat man must b foolish if he can do like ds to his step dauther wht abt his biological dauther!!
ReplyDeleteThree in a room. It means that the man may have seen parts of his step daughter's body. Why did the woman bring her daughter to her husband's one bedroom apartment? The man is randy but at the same time, one room is too small for comfort. The man is not trustworthy.
ReplyDeleteYea, he must have been attracted probably by seing d girl's nakedness well she was asleep. The first thing u as d mother should have done is taken out ur daughter from d house or room from d very first day u noticed such action. And u as his wife must also fear Allah in everything u do. Take ur daughter to stay wit any of ur relation u highly trusted and let d marriage be. ''Allah is surely with those who exercise patient'' (Qur'an). Isah Tatabu
ReplyDeleteLove is in trouble in that marriage
ReplyDeleteWao!!! This story is becoming ramper this days. My people, do u beleive dis woman and her dauther? My spirit does not beleive this woman and her dauther. By d way how old is she? I saw physical experiense when I was a tenant, this one even alleged the man of raping her but after careful investigations it is not true. If we have opportunity to follow this woman closely the woman may have hidden agenda. Beside this if it is true, a sinner must not go unpurnished.
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