I’ve been married 12 years but my husband behaves like he’s 90 years old and we haven’t had sex in a long time. Now I’ve found someone better than him and want more. Am I to be blame?
I’m 36 and a primary school teacher. My husband is 38 and works in IT. We’ve got two girls aged 11 and nine and have been married for nearly 12 years.
For the last year or two it’s been grim. My husband bores and irritates me half to death. I’m sick of the tedious grind of the classroom and the even worse grind back at home.
I was so uptight I almost exploded with rage when the head teacher said we had an extra staff meeting after school to talk about our OFSTED inspection. I moaned to a colleague at break time. He’s the only man on the staff and he teaches the children PE.
He’s gorgeous and sexy and we always got on well, but I thought out of bounds to a mother like me.
I phoned my husband to say I’d be late, he said ok. In the end the head teacher had to deal with an emergency with a student with family problems so the meeting was off after all. I looked at my colleague and to my surprise he just smiled and said, “Fancy a drink?”
I didn’t think twice. We went to a pub down the road and I felt almost sick with excitement. I think we both knew that we both wanted more than a drink.
We chatted over a glass of wine and he told me his marriage was pretty much dead. He’s got two little boys and he loves them to bits, but he’s bored with his wife and is desperate for change.
We finished our drinks and had sex in his car before heading for home. No one suspected a thing. We’re in the same boat but we’ve found a way out of the boring routine.
I was so uptight I almost exploded with rage when the head teacher said we had an extra staff meeting after school to talk about our OFSTED inspection. I moaned to a colleague at break time. He’s the only man on the staff and he teaches the children PE.
He’s gorgeous and sexy and we always got on well, but I thought out of bounds to a mother like me.
I phoned my husband to say I’d be late, he said ok. In the end the head teacher had to deal with an emergency with a student with family problems so the meeting was off after all. I looked at my colleague and to my surprise he just smiled and said, “Fancy a drink?”
I didn’t think twice. We went to a pub down the road and I felt almost sick with excitement. I think we both knew that we both wanted more than a drink.
We chatted over a glass of wine and he told me his marriage was pretty much dead. He’s got two little boys and he loves them to bits, but he’s bored with his wife and is desperate for change.
We finished our drinks and had sex in his car before heading for home. No one suspected a thing. We’re in the same boat but we’ve found a way out of the boring routine.
We meet up for sex once a week but the problem now is I’ve fallen in love.
Please what do I do? Should I just call it quits with my husband and move in with my teacher boyfriend?
Madam you dont have any excuse to do such. Marriage is to endure sweet and bitter. Stop that nonsense u're doing and go back to ur husband. mtschewwwww
ReplyDeleteYou are not a married matarial bicos it is impossable to turn ashowo into a house wife.Go a head and leave ur husband a lone and either move to Italy where you can become a full time ashowo or move in with d guy you are now fucking that will dump you very soon when he know ur tricks.Good luck with your smelling toto.
ReplyDeletePeople dont blame her afterall her husband is nit satisfying her and i sure he is sexing a woman too. Na 50/50 to me. Ms K
ReplyDeleteWel,its so fustrating wen ur man cant satisfy u,but dats no excuse woman,pls try every possible way to revive his sexual life.For job vacancies updates visit,www.jobgoals.blogspot.com
ReplyDeleteThe woman needs help so pls dnt bad mouth her. She shld sit & talk with her husband on how she feels & work out α̲̅ change in their sex department. Opting out isn't the solution.She shld discontinue her extra marital escapade & revive her marriage. Dialogue is the key.
ReplyDeleteOlu, you and your fake stories, na by force to post story? First she's been married for 10yrs, then it's "nearly 12yrs". Commot here with your lie lie story abeg, you no even sabi lie.
ReplyDeleteAbio oo I noticed it too.First its 10 yrs and later its 12 yrs.Na wa oo
DeleteYes please, go ahead with your teacher boyfriend, but remember, you are suppose to be a rolemodel for your two little babies and as for u Msk, am sure you are on the same train with weather u a man or a woman, I am a man and will never advice my sister to behave waywardly like the both of you. Ade
ReplyDeleteChange before its too lwte. That teacher is just shopping ur yam...wise up
ReplyDeletewell, i know sex is very inportant in a marriage but u just have to stop d infidelity nd sit ur husband down, tell him how u feel, he is ur husband dont be shy.
ReplyDeleteTry reviving ur husband's sexual life. Having xtra marital affairs isn't d best option. Jennifer
ReplyDeletePlease I want to introduce you to some one who can help you out of this mess, that the man JESUS CHRIST, He will get out of this problem, and discuss it with your husband, and the implication. I believe with prayers there will be a change.
ReplyDeleteYou and your husband need marriage counselling on the sexual side of marriage , you also need to ask God to forgive you, it is not possible to build a lasting relationship from an immoral sexual encounter based on adultery, it is a falsehood that would destroy you , it does seem as if you have fallen in love but it may a case of lust in the making.You also need to educate your husband about your feelings and sex, your husband also needs to see a psychologist, there is something wrong here and it would not be worthwhile to make your children suffer.
ReplyDeleteGoodluck...
ReplyDeleteWho deserves a cheat for a spouse, or for a parent? Not me or anyone for that matter.
ReplyDeleteDo everyone a favour, and tell your husband and children what you have been up to.
We all reap what we sow.
By now, you must see your spouse as a fool, but I see you as a murderer, your spouse is not safe with a wife he thinks he trust.
You cannot have two masters at the same time, it is either you love one and hate the other.
May God have mercy on your soul, and bring you to a place of repentance in Jesus name.
Hmm well sister you nid 2 think well b4 you done dat. Althoug sex is very very important in mariage so you nid 2 talk 2 ur husband by mind 9ite n ask him wat is really happening 2 him, may be he has sexual problem or he can't perform lyk a man den u ppl nid 2 discouce abt it instead of going out. bigkolly
ReplyDeleteI am surprised, olu did not credit this to an Igbo woman
ReplyDeleteMarried prostitute. An disciple of ms K. They are all over d place.
ReplyDeleteMarried prostitute. An disciple of ms K. They are all over d place.
ReplyDeleteMarried prostitute. An disciple of ms K. They are all over d place.
ReplyDeleteoloju kokoro ur toto dey hitch u
ReplyDeleteUr re right, she is a married prostitute but dont blame her, it is an inheritance.
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