Olympic spirit is the spirit of competition. It has crept into many marriages where couples who are supposed to work as partners are working as rivals. Lovers now work as foes. They compete about building their own houses, buying cars and about winning the love of their children.
Solution: You are partners, don’t compete. You are lovers, don’t fight. You are companions, work in unity. Don’t ever see each other as competitors but as companions.
Solution: You are partners, don’t compete. You are lovers, don’t fight. You are companions, work in unity. Don’t ever see each other as competitors but as companions.
2. Lovelessness
Husbands are commanded by God to love their wives and not be bitter against them. “Husbands love your wives and be not bitter against them”. Colossians 3:19. Love for your wife should be deep in your heart. When you allow her love to depart, you are making room for a difficult marriage.
Solution: Love your wife and don’t compare her with to any other woman. Verbalize the love. Tell her “I love you” often. Show the love to her by getting her gifts and give her your undivided attention.
3. Disunity
Solution: Love your wife and don’t compare her with to any other woman. Verbalize the love. Tell her “I love you” often. Show the love to her by getting her gifts and give her your undivided attention.
3. Disunity
Not walking as one, no fondness, divided house is the end result of so many negative things in marriage. United we stand, divided we fall. There is no place this saying is more true than in marriage.
Solution: Walk in love, walk as one. Stand together, stand as one. Stand in unity. Join your hands together, join your mind also. Have the same voice, the same vision, the same focus and the same destination.
Solution: Walk in love, walk as one. Stand together, stand as one. Stand in unity. Join your hands together, join your mind also. Have the same voice, the same vision, the same focus and the same destination.
By Foluke Daramola, Nollywood Actress/Producer

But come o....no be this Foluke wey don collect one Redeemed Pastor husband for Lagos? Who she come dey preach for now?
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Na wah o!! Bible don talk say the elect sef if possible, satan go deceive am. Make she try her formula well o, but make she know say anoda person go soon collect the pastor from am. Abe
ReplyDeleteMay b she's practicalizing "do as i say bt nt as i do" which is impossible. Benkada
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ReplyDeleteWho is dis larry guy self,wetin be ur own now just do dat which is gud n stop attackin people cos love is love n wen u hate u hate dats all,so tell me which one re u goin for larry.
ReplyDeleteRegardless of who wrote it, these are true words for men and women to heed. Being married means that it is you and your spouse above all else. In addition, and most importantly, spouses need to allow God's atoning sacrifice work in their union and be quick to forgive, love, and endure. It's not easy. I know my husband and I sometimes drive each other crazy. But I am blessed to have such a calm, cool headed man that is slow to anger, quick to forgive, laughs and loves well. I love that peanut head!
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