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| Would a reasonable lady ever dress like this? |
Indecent dressing simply means deliberate exposure of one’s body to the public. This practice is contrary to the acceptable norms and values of the society.
Moral decadence on the other is a reduction in the level of morality in the society. Do you observe that most (ladies) had gone haywire all in the name of the dressing?
The other day I screamed when I saw a girl whose parent barely fed well, dressed with half of her breast and buttocks outside.
The trouser she wore is such that half of her buttock was out, with beads and terrible make ups and I heard her mum telling her “to have a nice day.”
Some girls have been embarrassed and even abused because of their outrageous outfit.
Some girls have been embarrassed and even abused because of their outrageous outfit.
Indecent dressing is the major cause of the various assault and sexual harassment recorded in the society, over time. As a result of civilization, Nigeria ladies dress half naked to occasions all in the name of fashion’ and this is contrary to the prestige placed on African women. For instance Nigeria ladies derive pleasure in wearing cloth such as mini skirt, bumper short, armless e.t.c.
As a lady you must be cautious of the kind of clothes you put on. Do you know your dress create impression about you either positively or negatively in the heart of people?
Your dress could show if you are responsible or irresponsible, serious minded or unserious. Dressing in a manner that parents, society and religion frown at is not civilization. The way you dress show whether you are respected or not.
Most ladies now walk on the street half naked, with tattered clothes all in the name of fashion. Also, some innocent guys have been arrested along with armed robbers just because of the way they dressed.
I see no reason why a child from a good home should relax or keep dreadlocks, piercing his ears all in the name of fashion. There is a saying that “you are addressed because of the way you dressed.”
Nowadays, different styles of dressing are in vogue - low west, hot bosom, sagging etc. All these have the society’s moral value to its lowest ebb.
In a nation that is endowed with varieties of culture and traditions, it is annoying seeing this culture and traditions going into extinction. Nigerians find it difficult to dress in their local attire as it is regarded as “old and archaic.”
Indecent dressing is an habit embraced by all ages in the society. It has been inculcated by both the young and the old.
It is common among celebrities, particularly among artistes. This set of people, while on stage will want to look unique and in the process turned themselves into lunatic.
They wear tattered jean with holes, tight fitting shirt, some even go to the extent of wearing ordinary pant while on stage. All this is the cause of juvenile delinquency. Most of the under age children engage in early sex as a result of what they watch on Television as well as what they saw among their older siblings.
Sadly, most ladies have been sexually abused because of their mode of dressing.
The question is: who do we blame for these social malady - the parents, the society or the peer groups?
By Aminah Oyeleye and Seliat Lawal
As a lady you must be cautious of the kind of clothes you put on. Do you know your dress create impression about you either positively or negatively in the heart of people?
Your dress could show if you are responsible or irresponsible, serious minded or unserious. Dressing in a manner that parents, society and religion frown at is not civilization. The way you dress show whether you are respected or not.
Most ladies now walk on the street half naked, with tattered clothes all in the name of fashion. Also, some innocent guys have been arrested along with armed robbers just because of the way they dressed.
I see no reason why a child from a good home should relax or keep dreadlocks, piercing his ears all in the name of fashion. There is a saying that “you are addressed because of the way you dressed.”
Nowadays, different styles of dressing are in vogue - low west, hot bosom, sagging etc. All these have the society’s moral value to its lowest ebb.
In a nation that is endowed with varieties of culture and traditions, it is annoying seeing this culture and traditions going into extinction. Nigerians find it difficult to dress in their local attire as it is regarded as “old and archaic.”
Indecent dressing is an habit embraced by all ages in the society. It has been inculcated by both the young and the old.
It is common among celebrities, particularly among artistes. This set of people, while on stage will want to look unique and in the process turned themselves into lunatic.
They wear tattered jean with holes, tight fitting shirt, some even go to the extent of wearing ordinary pant while on stage. All this is the cause of juvenile delinquency. Most of the under age children engage in early sex as a result of what they watch on Television as well as what they saw among their older siblings.
Sadly, most ladies have been sexually abused because of their mode of dressing.
The question is: who do we blame for these social malady - the parents, the society or the peer groups?
And what's wrong if a lady dresses the way she likes? Pls this is a modern world and we can dress however we want. Ms K
ReplyDeleteMs K, we men cannot blame your type for your view. so just because you know we get attracted by sight should not mk u gals dress anyhow and expose ur private parts.we love looking at those ure private parts but we dont take gals who dress like dat serious. we jus play with them. gals who dress more apprioprately are respected, adored and loved. God made all the good thgs in life to be hidden----gold, oil, diamond,pearls etc
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DeleteMiss K, are you sure you are a lady? Unless you are a prostitute before you can come up here and say there is nothing wrong with indecent dressing in the name of "modern world". And for your information; No real man will come after you if you dress like that, its only brick layers and kuramo boys that will come after you
DeleteHahahaha! I like ur response.u hit her well.
DeleteAny who harrass guys wit sexual arousing dressing must not complain if raped oooooooo
ReplyDeleteSee something here oh, BUT God create shall! Seeing this alone, I wonder why some men still want to be gay. JJJY
ReplyDeleteIts no big deal at all, i've seen ladies dress lyk this and go to church & d church allows dat so how can we discourage our ladies frm dis act if d churches cannot lead well......dan
ReplyDeleteMention the church please. The only place i've seen ladies dress like this without caution is at a nite club and the ones that dressed this way were all prostitute. We had to leave that club because we were looking soo odd. Indecent dressing is a NO No
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ReplyDeleteThis is a big disgrace to womanhood.This bitches should be ashame of them selves by exposing their smelling ass tho d public.Its all due to lack of good home traning and up bringing.Ashawo bastards.
ReplyDeleteMs k, i doubt if u've gone thru any of d skuls either western or religiouse cos no skul promote decadence, i also wonder if u practice any religion cos no religion agreed to indecency, i wuld also find it dificult if u belongs to any of our society (ies) cos no society encourage nudity bt am neva amaze dat u've shown us dat u r primitive, barbaric, a whore nd a white elephant........mschewwww i dnt want to continue. Bt i want to know if u know d definition of a LADY ?
ReplyDeleteJust pasing by, no comment. peter smith
ReplyDeleteLove you Peter....D
ReplyDeleteI like Ms K. she is open minded unlike the rest of you pimitive people still stuck in the dark ages.
ReplyDeleteThe way Olu and his followers comment and demean women, I am convinved that they are either faggots that appreciate men body or islamic fundamentalists who want women covered up except their eyes.
As for the women, who join them in commenting, na JEALOUSY cos they dont have the body to show. Some of them as young as they are, their body don tire pass 80 year old women
Womens body is a work of beautiful art crafted by God and we must admire them, so the more they show us the better we can appreciate.
As for the idiots who are always talking about rape. see your mentality, gutter trashy mind. your sister that dres the way she dress, has she been raped?
You idiots need to stop using such provocative words because rape is not nice and you should not be wishing it on any body because of your primitive mentality.
I am sure if Olu and his followers were in the west and saw an ad for wonder bra, push up bra, victoria secret or any lingerie ad on tv or billoard, they will have heart attack and quench there.
Appreciate God's creation and move on
whn i get such pple, i make sure i take drug to hv mad sex with thm, afta then is over. i dnt value thm lol, i thnk u r one of thm, i will catch u soon.
DeleteOk na... You can now go in ordinary pant with a bare chest so dat ur body can b seen and appreciated... U fool
ReplyDeleteyour an idiot, follow fashion, incapable of thinking for yourself, you have to follow what others say.
Deleteno wonder you people are so miserbale dying of hypertension because you simply cannot mind your own business except to look women and comment on their clothing.
Get over it punk, no matter what you and the rest of your frustrated bastard friends think, women will cotinue to dress as they please and you idiots will continue to suffer miserably talking about it.
IT IS THEIR PERGATIVE, not yours, if you dont want to see, abeg use a pencil and poke out your 2 miserable eye balls
what is bad in dressing to your taste.old cargoes pls shut up
ReplyDeleteNo comment. I'm still sleeping, Gabriel Aka
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