Money, women and power are three inseparables that form a carnal trinity all over the world. Men of money and power usually end up attracting a flock of the most beautiful women.
In a recent chat, popular Lagos Lawyer and human rights activist, Fred Agbaje spoke extensively on how he cope with Nigerian women and why many remain single even at the age of 35.
Below is how he chronicled his view of today's women:
“If you abandon your job and begin to pursue women, they will bring you down.The average Nigerian woman, they want successful men. Those who have made their marks in their professions, those who have a name.
"But you have to be careful to avoid them otherwise they will bring you down. Otherwise they will cause you distractions. And let me tell you, it’s not all the girls out there that have anything to offer you; it’s what they can take from you. Otherwise why don’t they go for people who are still struggling?
"75% of Nigerian women today, they want successful men. Meanwhile, ask them what their contribution to help that man to greater heights, nothing!
"I resume work 7 o’clock, I close 10, 11pm every day. So, I have no time for those frivolities. So, is it the type of me that one lady will be running after? I’m not saying they don’t come after me, they come after me, but I know that they just want to associate with the name and what they can get.
"Not what they are going to contribute; they have nothing to contribute, they have nothing to offer me and that is typical of 75% of Nigerian women out there
"That is why most of them remain single at 35. Because they are looking for ready-made men, not who they can build with. Not even coming in and helping you to develop further.
"That’s why you (men) use and dump them!”
Source: Yes magazine
This man should shut up!! men can't do without sexy ladies. Even when they marry from village they still comes to us for good sex as their wife cant meet up....so who is complaining? Ms K
ReplyDeleteAll he said is true. for me all Nigeria women that what they want which is bad...Mr. no name
ReplyDeleteMr. no name. u re a coward! KIM.
DeleteThis man is very correct bicos most womem deos not want to date or marry poor guys that are struggling with life.Money talks bullshit work.No money no honey.Most of the 9ja women are Gold diggers with their smelling toto/pussy.
ReplyDeleteTrue talk Dr.Beny.That's y I married a white lady and I am very happy.Let d 9ja girls go to hell with their smelling toto.
DeleteHon. Khali my foot! who married who? u call urself a husband when u re a slave per say cos of permit! Mitsweeee! you dat even when ur wife is seeing her period and wants a blow job u dare not say NO! abi u wan go back 2 9ja! if she wants u 2 fuck her mama and grand mother u dare not refuse if she tells u 2 invite ur friend so both of u can fuck her same time u dare not refuse abi u chop wintch! on top of that u must cook after the whole fuck abi u chop crase to say u tire! or she go send u back to the streets you belong!
DeleteWoman wrapper Hon. my name is ......KIM. if them dey count men abeg go sleep cos u nor join.
DeleteHate to say this but the man is right, majority of Nigerian women want successful men who already made it but let look at this, why look for a successful when you are not successful yourself. Sad to say I am a Nigerian but my wife is not a Nigerian at all. I would never married a Nigerian woman if she not successful herself. So if you got nothing to offer than your body, it better off getting a hooker and paid her for the brief service and move on. Success attracts success not the other way around. Sad to say I live in the US and would never ever thing of coming to Naija to look for a wife, ain't happening....lol and nope I not a coward either.
DeleteOk... So wat now? If una lyk make una go marry sudan/iraq women. Who ks? Mtcheeeew! All i knw,one man's kpomo is anoda man's shacky
ReplyDeleteNo b lie
ReplyDeletelol...I don't think you fully understand this...more and more highly successful Nigerian men rather be with a successful woman, not someone who got nothing to offer at all. Until you realize that more and more successful Nigerian men would be looking outside the country and much more.
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talking about successful women; aint nigerian men scared of marrying a rich and successful lady? with the sick belief that she would not want to be under them. or is it not the same men that a woman will struggle with and at the end end up dumping her and marrying someone else? please everyone is got an ass full of shits so dont judge mr!
ReplyDeleteAbegee, Fred Agbaje or Jagbagba?? So, you want women to help or train men that would marry other wives? How many men remain with one woman when they become rich in Nigeria? I support the women. Marriage is a risk!
ReplyDeleteMay God change their life style pls
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