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December 05, 2012

Should I Tell My Husband He Is Not The Father Of Our Only Son?


I got pregnant for a guy last year December. He started avoiding me when I told him my condition so I decided to break up with him and keep my baby. A month later in January, i hooked up with another guy whom I loved with all my heart. I told him my situation and that I was expecting another guy's baby.

He asked me to abort and then get back to him. I could not bring myself to kill my unborn baby, so I lied to him that I had aborted.

Surprisingly, he proposed marriage to me, brought his people to my people and after all that, we moved in together. I've been trying to gain courage to tell him the truth but never got it. When the pregnancy started showing, he assumed it was his baby. I still feared telling him the truth as it would break his heart.

I did not want to lose him. I delivered a baby boy in August and he gave him his father's name. He also organized his baptism and the baby was baptized. He never even once asked about the dates.

But recently I learnt he got word that the other guy was telling people that the baby is his and that he was waiting for him to grow up so he could claim him.

Now my husband is asking me strange questions about "his" son.

Can I tell him the truth and still have his trust? Please I don't want to loose my young marriage.

15 comments:

  1. You must tell him the truth, pack your load and go back to ur parents house. You are not a good wife but a prostitute.
    LARRY

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    1. Larry you are so stupid.

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  2. babe forget about telling himbd truth to avoid wahala. use woman bottom power on him like crazy sex and denying the allegation. period. Ella

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  3. Ella u are saying rubbish. Lady it is better to tell him now and settle it than when he realize by himself cos this may cause permanent break up but u will just explain to him that a pastor say u should not abort he may reason with u than telling lie which can't help the situation.
    LEEBABA

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    1. Ella shame on you so thats the kind of woman you are Gosh you stink

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  4. my dear, u dont have to lie to your husband or any other person, tell him that u were unable to do it bcos u will become a murderer and that u cant kill ur own baby and also let him know that committing abortion might endanger u to not being able to give him a child, which u cant bear the pains of not giving him a child. if he is a man and loves u, he will forgive u and u will leave together as one. God bless u as u do this.

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  6. In dis life,d truth must be told,so pls tell him by urself dan him finding out n by den causin more harm dan good

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  7. Really that is life. Bcos of money and things of world women always desapoint themself.

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  9. The earlier d beta, so is beta u tell him now b4 it is too late, the baby must be giving to his real father, so to avoid problem 4 d boy in future. Tell d truth, u urself will be free

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  10. u better tell ur husband without wasting any more time.

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  11. Wanda shal neva end, Madan truth is bita but try 2make it open b4 ur husband come 2 realize. Diof

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  12. Woman it is very clear that you have built this marriage on a wrong foundation, nevertheless it is not too late to amend it while it is still young, continue keeping the truth from your husband will only cost you more psychological pains now and when your man finally knows the truth from another source you will be in serious trouble. First of all confess your sin to God, seek for forgiveness and ask God to help you prepare the mind of your husband, then go ahead and tell him the truth, let him know the whole truth, and that you don't want to kill a human being and at the same time endangered your life. I believe if the man loves you, he will only be annoy with you for not telling him on time and thereafter forgive you. The earlier the better for you. I pray the Lord will help you out of this dilemma in Jesus' name.

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