It all started well and we love each other dearly. But I don't think I understand the direction things are heading in our relationship anymore. This is an affair that have last for over three years.
Moreover, age is no longer on my side and I'm suspecting that he's doing this because he knows am getting older and as such wont want to walk out on him. Where would I start from?
When we started this relationship it was agreed there wont be sex but one year down the line we broke that after several pressure and now he sleeps with me whenever he wants. As if that is not enough he's now insisting that I must get pregnant for him before he would marry me.
He claims it's because he discovered I wasn't a virgin after I told him something contrary. He said for him to be sure my womb is intact I must get pregnant or forget him. I've begged him but he has refused.
My parents wont like the idea of me getting pregnant and I don't want his seed to drop inside me and I start hearing another excuse from him later. Please how best can I handle this guy and have my way?
He claims it's because he discovered I wasn't a virgin after I told him something contrary. He said for him to be sure my womb is intact I must get pregnant or forget him. I've begged him but he has refused.
My parents wont like the idea of me getting pregnant and I don't want his seed to drop inside me and I start hearing another excuse from him later. Please how best can I handle this guy and have my way?
Why did u lie about ur virginity? I suspect that you've have several abortions and cant have kids so u want to deceive the guy abi? No way...get pregnant first.
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True talk Larry.You are very correct.
DeleteSince he was havin free sex he didnt remember u re not a virgin abi? Abeg no mind am he must marry u
ReplyDeleteWats up with this virginity thing?its not worth lieing about.so my dear you have sown a bad seed for lieing.just be praying,maybe God will change his mind.
ReplyDelete@Larry: you harsh for ur comment! And as for u(virginia) breakup with him and ask for settlement..............or
ReplyDeleteis he d only guy on earth?, kick his ass and move on girl many other guys ar out there........
ReplyDeleteThe Devil you know is better than the Angel you dont know so be carefull ok
ReplyDeleteIts a pitty u started in a bad way, many ladies this day did not know what marriage is all about, why must u lie about ur verginity? What did u intends to achieve? Deception? Now who is deceiving who. If u claimed he sleep with u freely ,thats means u live with him, if u are in his shoe & u never for one day report any issue of pregnancy, wount u be afraid? U know this guy better so pray hard & work harder on him . Adewusi
ReplyDeleteIf nothing is wrong with u, den Getting pregnant is doing it d right way at d right time, so Get Pregnant for carry ur wahala go.
ReplyDeleteU shul tank God he did kick ur ass out of his way wen he discover u lied 2him about ur virginity.how many days or months wil it tak u 2dliver a baby.within d period of first trimesta u can plan an do ur wedin neatly witout ple noticin u r carrin a baby.bside who wan buy motor witout engine.abeg get d belle b4 ma guy go change his mind on u oh,so open d tin 4ram vry wide so he can penetrate deep 2 drop it inside inside wel wel.2avoid wastage oh
ReplyDeleteU shul tank God he did kick ur ass out of his way wen he discover u lied 2him about ur virginity.how many days or months wil it tak u 2dliver a baby.within d period of first trimesta u can plan an do ur wedin neatly witout ple noticin u r carrin a baby.bside who wan buy motor witout engine.abeg get d belle b4 ma guy go change his mind on u oh,so open d tin 4ram vry wide so he can penetrate deep 2 drop it inside inside wel wel.2avoid wastage oh
ReplyDeleteNne all i will say. do what he want if you love him as you said moreover is not his first time of doing it with you hmmm prove him wrong that you can get PG ok .........Mr. No name
ReplyDeleteR u dat desperate? Probably dats y he's insisting on dat knowing u can't walk away#issorait# just pray abt it. If God says he's d one,den God can change him. But I'm xo nt in support of him. A man who truly luvs u shd b able 2 let go ur past,no mata how bad it was, n move on to d future wit u!
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