It is with shame that I write this mail to you, Olufamous.com. I don't know if I should go into details or just ask for people's counsel on the best way to escape this shame, but I need your help.
I travelled to Lagos to buy clothes for my shop about two months ago and had to spend a few days in my sister's place. I called her but her number wasn't going so when I got to Lagos I contacted her husband who told me that she went to Ogun State on official assignment. He agreed that I should come over and do my transaction from their house.
It was raining when I got there so I got socked, especially while trying to get their keys from a neighbour. They live in a one-bedroom apartment, so I had to go inside the room to change. I was really cold and was already wishing I had a man I could visit in Lagos when the unexpected happened.
Due to the rain my sister's husband came in through a back door from the kitchen straight into the bedroom and I was completely nude; I couldn't even bend down to pick my clothes. I was just standing there motionless until he grabbed me and, yes, we did it.
We didn't feel any guilt, just laughed about it and I prepared food. We both ate, slept together and had sex all night with each other. The sequence continued for the three days I spent in Lagos but after the first time we agreed he shouldn't release his sperm inside me.
Am now back to Enugu where I do my business, but unfortunately I'm six weeks pregnant. No man friend, no boyfriend, no sex mate.... So who will I give this pregnancy to? My sister's marriage is less than a year and I just cant mention this to her husband.
The options I've thought of is either to kill myself or have an abortion. Is there any other way out of this mess I've gotten myself into? Please I need help, and I need it fast!
From A.U.
Due to the rain my sister's husband came in through a back door from the kitchen straight into the bedroom and I was completely nude; I couldn't even bend down to pick my clothes. I was just standing there motionless until he grabbed me and, yes, we did it.
We didn't feel any guilt, just laughed about it and I prepared food. We both ate, slept together and had sex all night with each other. The sequence continued for the three days I spent in Lagos but after the first time we agreed he shouldn't release his sperm inside me.
Am now back to Enugu where I do my business, but unfortunately I'm six weeks pregnant. No man friend, no boyfriend, no sex mate.... So who will I give this pregnancy to? My sister's marriage is less than a year and I just cant mention this to her husband.
The options I've thought of is either to kill myself or have an abortion. Is there any other way out of this mess I've gotten myself into? Please I need help, and I need it fast!
From A.U.
You will be very stupid to abort the pregnancy, give it to the man responsible, let him marry u. He enjoyed the sex he should take responsibility... Ms K
ReplyDeleteTell us the truth that u seduced your sisters husband and planing to take her husband, instead of this lie. shame on you!! Kalu
ReplyDeletei tink u should kill ur self, mumu u no dey shame 2 say u slept with ur sisters husband.
ReplyDeletewot a funny world, no shame again? anyway may God forgie both of u. please tell the truth though its but tell it. the did has been done. u just became the second wife of that man...... shameless woman
ReplyDeleteU should travel out and hav d baby, later d father will know what's up. Mariam
ReplyDeletei think you should kill youself is the best option than to abortive.
ReplyDeletego and have the baby, nothing is new in the world.
Deleteaccording to my religion any woman that born out side marriage she is the own of the child so keep ur baby til she grown up.
ReplyDeleteMy cadid advice to you is to have the baby delivered then write a suicie note to you sister asking her to take care of the baby. After that you can go hang yourself dirty self or hug a high tension NEPA CABLE! ASHAWO WITHOUT PAY as you
ReplyDeleteYou've gotten yourself into big trouble, discuss with the man who got you pregnant and hear what he has to say first before knowing what to do...it's very complicated!
ReplyDeleteKilling urself will imply killing d baby too which is d same as aborting. U've alredi committed a sin,dnt go further to commit anoda. Tell d man n kip dat baby. No b d pikin send u work o. God'll help u _inem_
ReplyDeleteKilling urself will imply killing d baby too which is d same as aborting. U've alredi committed a sin,dnt go further to commit anoda. Tell d man n kip dat baby. No b d pikin send u work o. God'll help u _inem_
ReplyDeletewhat a shame, seek 4 forgiveness from God and ask Him to help u out of this mess u put yourself into.u can then tell ur sister and her husband about it.
ReplyDeletelol...
ReplyDeleteshameless woman, why should you have sex with your inlaw, pls kindly go for confession and get prepared for your baby.
ReplyDeleteMy dear, you said that you wished you had a man you could visit in Lagos meaning that you needed a man at the moment to warm you. Please do not present the story as if it was a mistake. Who knows if you are jealous of your kid sister who got married before you? Just decide with your baby's father on what to do because it is a big shit. I pity ur kid sis.
ReplyDeletewell my candid advice to you is to keep the baby, tell the man but let him know you are not going to tell anyone not even your sister and when the baby has finanly grown to a stage then God will give you wisdom as to how to go about it.
ReplyDeleteDo not kill yourself and dont try abotion the Almighty God will see you through. Ask God to forgive you and never allow any privacy again between you both.
it is well and as for those that are cursing her let anyone of you who has not sin beforeh cast the first stone.
Repent and sin no more.
ReplyDeleteI really wish I can see & talk to you one on one.
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ReplyDeletemy dear the deed has been done. ask God for forgiveness. if u think it was a mistake try not to repeat it. abortion is out of it cos is a sin. keep the baby later on in life you can talk to your sister and the husband.
ReplyDeleteshame to you
ReplyDeleteI whish i will see you and deliver my spam to you and warm you
ReplyDeleteStory time, Story time... was it P Square that kids asked to tell them a story
ReplyDeleteOlu abeg tell us some story
if u must blame d rat, u must blame d 'daddawa' that smells to attract it.
ReplyDeleted man no knw inlaw? if to say hin respect hin inlaw, hin 4 no turn shap, shap commot frm dat room. bt bcoz hin mind sef d dirty, hin just fell.
ALL of una wey don marry go wan tell me say in one way or d other, una never don mistakenly see una inlaw nakedness, or de tempted and feel as if, as if???
abegi, d man mind don d bent on doin it. He shld also b blamed.
Neil
TELL HIM AND INSIST HE DOES THE RIGHT THING!!
ReplyDeleteI BELIEVE YOU SHOULD KNOW WHAT THE RIGHT THING IS.
So if rain touch ur body u go look for man? Shame to u and the man! That's how weak u guys are. Leave the baby for ur sister,tell her rain coursed it.
ReplyDeleteStephen u are rite oooo rain coz all this ishhh ibraheem
DeleteThis is a fabricated story, but any way, u should control ur resistance because u can't resist been with a man when ur nude. U are a sex fricked person and if u don't let d spirit of God have control over u 4 decisions, d devil will, it is either God or Satan, so chose. u'll end up like dat general's daughter killed in Lagos recently.
ReplyDeleteI don't belive your story.It look like you are a willing participant in the sex jambori you had with your sister's husband.You got what you were looking for.You are a shameless ashawo bastard.Just go ahead and have the baby so that you can sell the baby to human traffiker to make some money because you are a very greedy bitch who don't care about no body but to satisfy your ugly self.
ReplyDeleteBoth u and ur sis husband are dogs, leave d baby and face d challenge of ur acts.
ReplyDeleteMummy Agbo
The moment you discover ur sis is not at home ur mind was already prepared to sleep with him.so make ur self available 2 explain 2 both ur sis and her husband.if she has no issue she might decide 2 leav him 4 u.i can see that d man himself did not love is wife he has it in mind b4. If nt he can resist.since u both laugh over it and u did not felt guity.it was a delibrate action only that u never new it will result to what u have now.
ReplyDeleteThe moment you discover ur sis is not at home ur mind was already prepared to sleep with him.so make ur self available 2 explain 2 both ur sis and her husband.if she has no issue she might decide 2 leav him 4 u.i can see that d man himself did not love is wife he has it in mind b4. If nt he can resist.since u both laugh over it and u did not felt guity.it was a delibrate action only that u never new it will result to what u have now.
ReplyDeleteThe moment you discover ur sis is not at home ur mind was already prepared to sleep with him.so make ur self available 2 explain 2 both ur sis and her husband.if she has no issue she might decide 2 leav him 4 u.i can see that d man himself did not love is wife he has it in mind b4. If nt he can resist.since u both laugh over it and u did not felt guity.it was a delibrate action only that u never new it will result to what u have now.
ReplyDeleteWOMAN U ARE NOTHING BUT SHAMELESS THIEF.
ReplyDeleteWOMAN U ARE NOTHING BUT SHAMELESS THIEF.
ReplyDeleteAm ashame of u
ReplyDeleteU are very stupid, u slept with ur sis husband shemeless woman. keep the pregnancy and send ur sis out of her house u hear? M O U
ReplyDeletedont kill urself but stop that nonsence henceforth before the jurgement of God come upon u
ReplyDeleteJust let the man know about but never see abortion as an option.
ReplyDeletehmmm,i wonder what this world is turning to.I bliv dis story bcos d same thing happened 2 me.My elder sister slept with my husband and up till this moment,they dont know dat am aware of it.Within my mind,av decided never to speak with my sister again anytime she returns from her sojourn in London,and as 4 my husband,i just decided 2 overlook it 4 d sake of my kid.I wonder what happened 2 filial ties?There shouldnt even b dat kind of attraction btw in-laws.It's really disgusting.
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