I'm 22 years old and an orphan, I stay wit ma uncle. Please hide my identity... I'm dating this man who is about 54yrs old, he is willingly to do anything for me, he is like a father to me.
He helps me financially since non of ma parents' people are helping me. I've hard several heart breaks and I told ma self that I wont love any man that comes ma way again, just to have fun and move on with ma life.
Recently I met this guy name John, he loves me so much and I fell in love wit him, we have been dating 4 almost one month now. He is 26yrs old, he works but I dont wana be a burden on him.
My question is should I quit ma sugar daddy and stick to ma new lover? I dont feel comfortable being around ma sugar daddy any more, each time he wants to have sex with me I feel bad and weep in ma heart. I just have 2satisfy him if not I will die of hunger and poverty.
Ma lover cant be of help to me financially.... Please, what should I do?
My question is should I quit ma sugar daddy and stick to ma new lover? I dont feel comfortable being around ma sugar daddy any more, each time he wants to have sex with me I feel bad and weep in ma heart. I just have 2satisfy him if not I will die of hunger and poverty.
Ma lover cant be of help to me financially.... Please, what should I do?
I think you're lady and shameless. If you're serious you should have used the money you were making from him to start a business and move on... Amara
ReplyDeleteAmara you did gave a good advise bur calling names is not the best of it, you are also a lady.
DeleteSome girls make me laugh.... When looking for how to justice their prostitution they comes up with stupid story. You're a cheap slut. Period!
ReplyDeleteLARRY
shut up larry, people like you just judge and quick to cursed, circumstance got her into a relationship with her sugar daddy, no one is perfect. big fool
DeleteLarry am so ashamed that you are my name sake, why would you talk the way you did, not everyone that finds themselves in a position that wished to be on that position. and more over she is with only one man and not every other men, am sure you also have a sister are you sure your sister is with one guy? think before you talk.
DeleteLarry take it easy,u know she has no one for her so I think she should explain things to her sugar daddy so if he could still help her without neccessarily having sex with her,,,,may God see u through my dear
DeleteIs it that ur uncle cant feed you? Why must you have sex with an old man at 22 bcos of money? That is prostitution and you must stop it immediately!!!
ReplyDeletewhy are poeple so rude???...she told u guyz all deze so yu could help her with an advise,buh all yo say is call ha names lyk prostitue,cheap slot....by dis she is more saddened,you should be a helping hand 2 her as she expected not the other way round...who knws wat you dat called her prostitute is??...u'rz might be d worst....be wise!!!!
ReplyDeleteHmmmm dis is not any body's fault but urs it's no excuse dat ur uncle can't feed u u av 2 leave ur comfort zone if u really want 2 make it and get a life wat about all the moni u've made out of the old man use it 2 start a life
ReplyDeleteWhat is bad has no other name. Your future should be important to you,make a choice now ,love,money and blissful marital life and what gave impression that the young man can not make it financially than your sugar daddy.
ReplyDeleteU can't eat ur cake n have it. Benkada.
ReplyDeleteIf I say what's on my mind people will complain...
ReplyDeleteHow do I describe a small girl having sex for money? Ashawo.... Kalu
I'm saddened by your situation, but I'm much more sad by the comments. We are very quick to judge others while thinking this can never be us.
ReplyDeleteI will advise you let your 26 old know your situation, and hopefully, both of you can work it out.
Your story is very amusing. You want to use the old man to earn a living when you don't love him and then you turn to ask for advise!!! What advise can anyone give you?
ReplyDeletemy girl in life people will always judge and crucify and curse. but what you have to think is you came to this life alone and will surely go alone, so do not give a shit what people think. ok. stay strong and commit your life to God hands, and him alone will establish you, not man or some sugar daddy. only God can.
ReplyDeleteMy advice is stop sleeping with the sugar daddy because one, you are a young girl, and two you do not want it to affect your relationship or future in life. date people your age and try do business like buying or selling. if it means to get money from sugar daddy to do the business, get it and bounce out of his life for good, if the sugar daddy charting shit, tell him to piss off and that u will disgrace him or report him to his wife. by all means re start your life and make a new beginning for you. God forgives us regardless and gives us so many chances, so babe, you have another chance and make use of it. xx
don't be a cheap twerp! when u were committing adultery wt d old, libidinous fellow; didn't u know there was a price to pay? it's either u scram while u can u continue being a victim of a circumstance u helped create. Mushu!
ReplyDeleteI will blame you a bit because, you should have a savings of all the work(SEX) u did that you are been paid for,i will advice you to tell your boyfriend or even ask him whatever you need so that he can tighten up his belt if he truly loves you he will try n make you understand even if he does not have or you stop before your so-called boyfriend finds out himself
ReplyDeleteGive your life to Christ and a new you will energe. All you need is to get God's forgiveness and forgive yourself. God will see you through
ReplyDeleteI think i quite agreed with Doriswey he has spoken very well, in situation like this, remember this person needs help not to discourage that person to go back to that kind of life again
ReplyDeleteYou are very young and stupid.Age is nothing but number.If you want to live a good life,go a head and marry the man as 54 years is not 2 old unless you want to starve for the rest of your live,go a head and marry your young boy friend and you go find out that khakhi nor bi leather;as you be misrable for the rest of your life.No money no honey.Good luck to you on your chioce.
ReplyDeletemy dear leave the old man and concentrate on ur new found love. build with him and u guys will make it in life. give God a chance in ur life. been an orphan does not justify ur act.
ReplyDeleteWhat advise those she need?Is she not a grown up.Most times its our greed that leads us to do stupid things.If she cant be contented with what her uncle gives her and try to be resourceful on her own,She will keep on sleeping with sugar daddies even when married.Don't use your orphan status as an excuse to sell God's temple for material reasons.
ReplyDeleteMY DEAR LIKE AS YOU SAID GO AND BE WITH THE YOUNG MAN OF 26, THAT YOU HAVE FOUND AND LEAVE THAT OLD MAN ALONE, WHATEVER THAT YOUNG MAN GET MANAGE IT LIKE THAT WITH HIM AND BELIEVE YOU GOD TO SEE YOU PEOPLE THROUGH, MONEY IS NOT EVERYTHING, LOOK UNTO YOUR GOD FOR PROVISION AND NOT UNTO MAN, BECAUSE ONE DAY MAN WILL FAIL YOU BUT GOD NEVER FAILS, AND ALSO GIVE YOUR LIFE TO CHRIST FOR BETTER YEARS A HEAD OF YOU AND YOUR FAMILY TO BE GOD BLESS YOU CHEERS.
ReplyDeletei wonder why some people likes calling people names,just remember that the future lies before us, we don't know where we will be or conditions we will find ourselves it may be if not her.my dear d old man called it help but is just trying to shatter your future,please leave him the help is not genuine.the man old fool doing this to you may his children may not even be in Nigerian,but here he is ruining ur because ur parents are late.
ReplyDelete1. You need to leave a simple life. Not a. luxirious one.
ReplyDelete2. What do you really want in life
If the sugar daddy has been of good financial help to you. So wot have you been doing with the ♏πξϔ.
Have you been living so flashy. If you can't start up a bizness on U̶̲̥̅̊я own with the ♏πξϔ. My frnd think twice. Or is it kobo kobo he gives U̶̲̥̅̊ ?
Drop dat man and hook up with your young lover. He mite not be of financial help buh am sure he wld asist you if you let him know U̶̲̥̅̊я needs' dats if he is truly in love with you.
Be wise dear dat sugar daddy is draining you and bringing bondage 2 U̶̲̥̅̊я life.
1. You need to leave a simple life. Not a. luxirious one.
ReplyDelete2. What do you really want in life
If the sugar daddy has been of good financial help to you. So wot have you been doing with the ♏πξϔ.
Have you been living so flashy. If you can't start up a bizness on U̶̲̥̅̊я own with the ♏πξϔ. My frnd think twice. Or is it kobo kobo he gives U̶̲̥̅̊ ?
Drop dat man and hook up with your young lover. He mite not be of financial help buh am sure he wld asist you if you let him know U̶̲̥̅̊я needs' dats if he is truly in love with you.
Be wise dear dat sugar daddy is draining you and bringing bondage 2 U̶̲̥̅̊я life.
What will hzppen to you if that Sugar Daddy stop patronizing bcos of a sweeter young girl? THINK!
ReplyDeleteMrs Olajumoke
God will not alone us to be in a stuation that will make us do sometin stupid.pls lets stop judgin others by there mistakes rather finding a possible solution to the problem.Larry n Kalu i 1onder wat typ of human being u re may God forgive u two..........Chi
ReplyDeleteChi but u didnt give her any avdice....forget others and say ur mind.... S.D.
ReplyDeleteMy dear the bible says all unrightousness is a sin.come close 2 GOD and he will help u.i myself am an orphan too.call me lets talk 08060442549 4rm charles
ReplyDeleteNaija hmmm:-( tinzs re happening dis is pathetic.Ma Ladie dnt let me decieve u @ all na only papa God fit rearrange yr life....if u won komot patapata (PRAY 2 GOD 4 HELP BOTH AND SOW WT U HAVE 2 GOD)..am nt a preacher..dt little dt u have sow it to God
ReplyDeleteMy dear sister I know it is nt easy but I will advise u to learn how to sew or how to plait hair because I have seen a lady that is a orphan who use plaiting of hair to pay her school fees and is nw a graduate and also take care of her siblings. Another advice I will give u is to give ur life to God and he will show u the way. Nneny
ReplyDeleteI THINK IT IS TIME PEOPLE UNDERSTOOD WHAT THS MEDIUM IS MEANT FOR. IT IS MEANT FOR PROBLEM SHARING AND NETWORKING. THIS YOUNG LADY HAS COME OUT TO POUR HER PROBLEMS. PLEASE IF YOU HAVE NOTHING TO OFFER HER AS GOOD ADVICE DO NOT ADD TO HER PROBLEMS BY ABUSING OR CURSING HER. HE THAT IS ALIVE DOES NOT KNOW WHAT WOULD KILL HIM. MANY OF US HAD HAD SIMILAR EXPERINCE WITH THIS GIRL. AT TIMES CIRCUMSTANCES BEYOUND YOUR CONTROL CAN MAKE YOU DO CERTAIN THINGS YOU WOULDN'T HAD DONE ORDINARILY. I AM EVEN SURPRISED THAT LADIES WHOS SHOULD UNDERSTAND HER MORE THAN WE MEN ARE NOT EVEN HELPING HER. SHE HAS TO SURVIVE. PLEASE LET US CORRECT HER WITH LOVE AND CARE AND GIVE HER GENUINE ADVICE. THANK YOU ALL.
ReplyDeleteMy dear all you need is Jesus. Remember the bible says, seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness and every other thing will be added unto you.
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