Her husband is a traveling business man from naija too and he is the best man you would ever meet. He's so good to my family, a good Christian and he hardly ever raises his voice or gets mad. You know them mellow and calm people?? That's him! I love and respect him like I would my father cos he's like 10 years older than my sister.
He cleans when he's home, takes care of his children (they have three) and he gives my sister and me lots of money. My sister on the other hand I totally adore too. She's a free spirit and very generous but she's a party animal ooo! She loves to go to parties and smoke and drink. Though she doesn't do this at home, just outside. She's real vain and temperamental too but she's my sister and I love her that way.
Ok the point to my story is I found out she's cheating on her husband with a guy like three or four years younger than her. At first I thought he was her friend but then I started seeing text messages and frequent calls. This guy would call and she would live everything and fly over to him. He's still in college (I no he's old sha but na condition).
I still tried to ignore it but then I saw a letter she was writing. In it she professed her love and undying support and bashed (insulted) her husband as old and an idiot and that she will divorce him and get half his money and property in years to come so they can be together. She also wrote that she loves the oral sex and anal sex he (the guy) gives her. My mind was blown and it broke to pieces. I was appalled and disgusted at my sister, a woman with 3 kids damn it!
Now her husband has been the best thing to happen to my family and I live with them and I will testify in a court of law that he has not done anything to warrant this kind of treatment. I’m torn!
I really want to tell him what my sister is doing...but she's my sister and that would be betrayal right??? But her husband has never laid a hand on her or argued with her with harsh words or slacked as a provider so I owe him the truth now right??? I know you are going to say talk to my parents but my sister is a golden child to them. She can't do no wrong in their eyes...
This could give my mother a heart attack... Also if I tell my sister what I know she could threaten me and throw me out and I have nowhere else to stay or a job to survive on. Please tell me what to do cos I'm slowly going crazy and I am beginning to resent my sister.
Ok the point to my story is I found out she's cheating on her husband with a guy like three or four years younger than her. At first I thought he was her friend but then I started seeing text messages and frequent calls. This guy would call and she would live everything and fly over to him. He's still in college (I no he's old sha but na condition).
I still tried to ignore it but then I saw a letter she was writing. In it she professed her love and undying support and bashed (insulted) her husband as old and an idiot and that she will divorce him and get half his money and property in years to come so they can be together. She also wrote that she loves the oral sex and anal sex he (the guy) gives her. My mind was blown and it broke to pieces. I was appalled and disgusted at my sister, a woman with 3 kids damn it!
Now her husband has been the best thing to happen to my family and I live with them and I will testify in a court of law that he has not done anything to warrant this kind of treatment. I’m torn!
I really want to tell him what my sister is doing...but she's my sister and that would be betrayal right??? But her husband has never laid a hand on her or argued with her with harsh words or slacked as a provider so I owe him the truth now right??? I know you are going to say talk to my parents but my sister is a golden child to them. She can't do no wrong in their eyes...
This could give my mother a heart attack... Also if I tell my sister what I know she could threaten me and throw me out and I have nowhere else to stay or a job to survive on. Please tell me what to do cos I'm slowly going crazy and I am beginning to resent my sister.
Telling is the right thing to do but it will put your sister's marriage in crisi. so use your discretion and call your sister to stop or else you'll tell. But she may throw u out... just use ur discretion.
ReplyDeleteI wont say anything about this adulterous woman but i will see what all those criticism me will say about this shameful act. Kalu
ReplyDeletewot u will do is cal ur sis one on one and give her d word of advice u can give,weather she will change. as long as she is married she don't have to go into that act.
ReplyDeleteTell d man n make sure u have proves
ReplyDeleteYour sister is a prostitute and if you dont expose her now you may be attracted to her character when you get married too. Jay
ReplyDeleteI will suggest u keep ur mouth shut and mind ur business.
ReplyDeleteIf u ar not interested in taking over d marriage frm ur sister, better kip ur mouth short nd mind ur business if u hv any. If u dnt hv any buz pls luk 4 one. Wit d level ur sister hv gone, if u, in watever form let her kw u ar aware of her journey 2 hellfire, u ar finished. U can only confront her wen u ar independent or if u ar here in Nig. There is 80% chance dat even if u tell d man wit wateva evidence, he might still go on wit her wife nd den u bcum a fool nd a betrayer. B warn!!! frm Jerry Jentle.
ReplyDeleteIf u ar not interested in taking over d marriage frm ur sister, better kip ur mouth shut nd mind ur buznes if u hv any. If u dnt hv any buznes pls luk 4 one. Wit d level ur sister hv gone, if u, in watever form let her kw u ar aware of her journey 2 hellfire, u ar finished. U can only confront her wen u ar independent or if u ar here in Nig. There is 80% chance dat even if u tell d husband wit wateva evidence, he might still go on wit her wife nd den u bcum a fool nd a betrayer. B warn!!! frm Jerry Jentle.
ReplyDeleteBetter let sleeping dogs lie and carry on with your life! Every day is for the thief but surely one day for the owner - its better if the husband catches her himself! See no evil, hear no evil and speak no evil else you will be caught in between ..,... Simple
ReplyDeleteHmmm... This is a very serious matter my dear.. You see,in this life no matter how u hide the truth a time shall when it will tell itself.. What your sister is doing is adulterous.. And she should be exposed for her wicked act. Like lucky Dube said in one of his tracks, "if you want to stand for the truth.you will always stand alone ".. Pls try and advice her to stop the evil act and if she doesnt change call the attention of the husband.. But just be ready for whatever consequence.. Pls do the right thing for it always pays!!! Thank you and God bless you!
ReplyDeleteLike someone said u should apply wisdom, u can look for some bible passage dat talk about immorality ask her to explain it to u blc u don't understand it, in her explaination God may touch her mind. U know prophet Nathan uses parable for King David and it was David dat gave his own judgment unknowingly to him. So boy ask God for wisdom.
ReplyDeleteJerry gentle has d best advice 4 u.KEEP UR MOUTH SHUT.
ReplyDeleteThis is a very sensitive issue. D best tn is nt 2 tel ur bro I law bt speak wt ur sis 1st. Then let ur parents knw, we'd a she's golden to them or nt. if she doesnt chug n she's caught, it wil be said dt u tyrd 2 help her kip her home by speaking to d right people bt she refused to listen. Pls dear, b very careful. Ur sis myt tnk no1 sees her bt pple r watching. If ds tn gets 2 her hubby tru anode source, let it nt b said dt u'r responsible n I rily tnk u shld say ds 2 ur parents also. If dey truly luv her, dey will tnk ds mata up wt her till she stops. Dnt b the one 2 tel her hubby. U will never be 4givn by ur sis n outsiders who ,yet
ReplyDeleteI mean by outsiders who myt hear d story. Be careful dear. God wil gv u wisdom n wil touch ur sis heart.
ReplyDeleteHmm
ReplyDeleteMy dear,dis is a sensitv mata but God hz solutn 2 any problem.I adv u 2 apply wisdom by caln ur sister using(Gal5v19,james 4v4,Eph 5v22)and ask ha 2 explain it 2 u,believe me dt God must use d tym 2 change ha bt neva,neva u tel d hubby i plead wt u bcz LOVE is smtyms blind.Bt u may ask me y dd i said dt is bcos she(ur sis)wen evy tin is known,may tel d hubby dt is DEVIL dt leads ha 2 do dt by den u r already out.Am prayn 4 u.u can chk me on e-mail me on kingsfuture01@ hotmail
ReplyDeleteThere is no amount of advise your sister will listen to for the fact that the boyfriend has performed oral/anal sex, she love sex and she found sex. Can u advise the husband if there is a way he can increase his sex act. 99% of women dat I know will not give up oral sex
ReplyDeleteYou can only have heart to heart conversation with your sister. You have no right under whatever guise to tell the husband. Telling the husband will complicate the matter and put all of you in jeopardy. If you cannot tell your sister, just forget it. Time will tell
ReplyDeletepls dont tell him. jst call ur sister and shurn her.
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