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My Wife Returned Home Without Pant -Female Commissioner’s Husband


Mr. David Erhabor, the husband of a one-time Commissioner for Women Affairs in Edo State, Florence Igbinigie-Erhabor, has told a Benin High Court that his highly respected wife of 15 years came home without her pant.

David while testifying in a divorce suit instituted by his wife, who was a comminner under Lucky Igbinedion, told the court he did not envisage a broken home in his life.

“There was a day she came back home drunk and without a pant on her. She was in the habit of keeping late nights,” Mr. Erhabor revealed. He said trouble started after his wife was appointed commissioner, after which he said she began keeping late nights.

David, himself an ex-Senior Adviser to former Governor Osunbor, told the court that there was a time the wife abandoned their two children and absconded from home for three days “only to be caught red-handed inside a vehicle, romancing and kissing a man who had earlier gassed me.”

He recalled that it took the intervention of a former chairman of Delta State Oil Producing Community Development Commission, Chief Wellington Okrika, to resolve some of their matrimonial crises.

He also said his wife had once demanded N1m from him before she could allow him to have sex with her, adding that on another occasion, he ran from home when he sensed that his wife was planning to send hired assassins after him.

On the custody of their children, David said they could always stay with whoever they chose when on holidays.

Florence among other prayers is asking the court to grant her divorce on the grounds of threat to life, violent assault and infidelity on the part of her husband.  The former commissioner, who has since 2009 separated from her husband, is demanding that she should be paid N150,000 as monthly upkeep for each of their children. 

While being crossed-examined by  Mr. Erhabor’s lawyer, Florence said her husband had at a time squeezed the children inside a vehicle and threatened to set them ablaze. She said it took the intervention of members of both families to broker peace.

The former commissioner said she had been solely responsible for the children’s upkeep, including payment of their school fees over the past years. She added that the children had been living in her family house where she relocated to when she suspected that her husband was after her life. She also accused David of having extra-marital affair with their housemaid. 

Olufamous.com gathered that Justice Anthony Erhabor, who looked troubled by the revelations by both parties, adjourned the case till August 4 for further hearing.

12 comments:

  1. There is no love in the family and one will not be surprised if the man is not even the real father of those children bcos the one seems to be the wild type

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  2. Women when will u people ever change? It seems infidelity is in many women's blood, especially the ones in politics. Kalu

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  3. That is what u get when men will not marry "ordinary" ladies but rather go for those ones who claim to have class...
    TAKE NOW: More than 75% of the flashy girls u see around are into corporate prostitution. Young men beware! Jay

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    1. Exactly...men, start looking for women of substance and beautiful, empty vessels. On another note if 75% of flashy girls are into corporate prostitution then 75% of corporate big boys must be pimps. Both parties are doing the same thing, just for different reasons. Women want security and money, and men want sexy, young trophies on their arms. Well, you get what you pay for.

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  4. we have so many of them here in Abuja...that is why i dont support women in politics..these woman is a halort

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    1. Perhaps the women are just doing what they have seen men in politics doing for decades. Male politicians are some of the most unfaithful.

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  5. I now start to hate Nigerian women,though some are faithful.Olufamous women readers no long thing pls.Here in western world,women are sooo faithful to their husbands or even their boy friends.Ka Chineke mezie okwu Amen.

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    1. Unfaithful men and women are found everywhere, even here in the west. I'm sure the stories Olu posts don't represent the norm for Nigerian girls. I know many who are faithful and not gold diggers. What you sow, you reap and where you sow determines the quality of what you get. Stop looking for flashy, young things and find someone with family values.

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  6. It is indeed a shame that a marriage, particularly one with children has fallen to such. Condemnation should not only be placed on the head of the wife. The husband was unfaithful too. It seems common for Nigerian men to be unfaithful...especially with the house help.

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  7. I wonder how many men climbed this woman as they laughed at her husband! Who knows how many women her husband has been frolicking with? The end result is distrust and a broken family! U see,all that glitters is not Gold!

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  8. Both d husband and wife committed d same offence of adultery. That showed that things have fallen apart for d family, and this is exactly what is obtainable in many homes in Nigeria. I know of a former commissioner in Enugu who impregnated d wife's sister, married d wife's friend. We pray God should intervene.

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  9. But all tins as side,most a man pay a wife he married 1 million naira b4 he can chop his wife puf puf.Dat means d wife is now praticing prostitute earlly b4 bringing It 2 her matrimonial home b4 her husband,imagine me 2 pay.1 kobo 2 my wife b4 I can sleep wit her,my own wife.wonders shall never end.

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