I'm at a loss as to how things happen so fast these days. I had a crazy sex on cool night with a young man for just about ten minutes and the next thing I see myself pregnant. How can this happen to me? Why should I find myself in such a shameful situation? Am I the first women to have sex with a young boy?
The thing that bothers me most is this sex machine (he's very good) is my daughter's boyfriend.
Right now I wish to have him all to myself. But how am going to handle my daughter is the problem. She claims they are in love with with each other but her lover couldn't say no when I ask him to sleep with me. It was as if he wanted me more than I wanted him.
My daughter is just 21 and my age is double of hers cos I was almost 21 when I gave birth to her. Her father is gone and the responsibility of taking care of her was all mine. I gave her a good life as much as my income could carry and she's ok.
My headache is this pregnancy. Her boyfriend didn't know am pregnant for him and my daughter has no idea we are seeing each other. The only man in my life right now is married with wife and three kids.
I know I've made mistakes but I've read other people's stories on Olufamous.com and I felt I could get some help here that's why am asking for help.
What is the best option for me cos abortion is not an option?
My daughter is just 21 and my age is double of hers cos I was almost 21 when I gave birth to her. Her father is gone and the responsibility of taking care of her was all mine. I gave her a good life as much as my income could carry and she's ok.
My headache is this pregnancy. Her boyfriend didn't know am pregnant for him and my daughter has no idea we are seeing each other. The only man in my life right now is married with wife and three kids.
I know I've made mistakes but I've read other people's stories on Olufamous.com and I felt I could get some help here that's why am asking for help.
What is the best option for me cos abortion is not an option?
Should I take this sweet boy from my daughter and ask her to let go since am her mother? Afterall she can get another young guy to date. Or I should give the pregnancy to the married man am dating?
But I don't think I want to leave this sweet boy for my small girl.
But I don't think I want to leave this sweet boy for my small girl.
Why should u say such nonsense that u want to take the boy away from your daughter? Daughter's stupid of u. Love.
ReplyDeleteThis is why I say most women are prostitutes, even the man u're dating is another woman's husband. So what is wrong with u women? Kalu
ReplyDeleteI have to admit that Kalu does have a point on this occasion.
ReplyDeleteYou have put urself in a terrible position, getting pregnant for a boy in a relationship wit ur daughter is a grave mistake.
ReplyDeleteTELL THEM THE TRUTH AND FACE THE CONSEQUENCES!!
Madam call your girl and tell her d truth coz she is the only one that can protect u in this situation....don't take the baby to that marriage man.
ReplyDeleteENDURANCE
Year right, wasn't this a scene in a nollywood movie starring patience ozokwor?
ReplyDeletei think that there is evill spirits in this woman,do u see how proud she was to even tell us that she is going out with a man that have 3kids,who knows why she dont have husband?for me i think that what she need is JESUS!
ReplyDeletewhen u first start think abt making love to ur daughter's boyfriend without condom u forget that anything can happen ,frm std to pregnant, u got wht u wanted so i advice u to give the child to the real owner.or better still u and ur daughter can reach an aggrement to marry same man after all u nigeria women have lost ur dignity.
ReplyDeletelift life life.your story is not the 1st woman.thanks 4 sharing coz some of us are worse than dis but can share it publicly. but you allowed the devil into your life and that of your daughter,seriously you just have to tell the truth
ReplyDeleteThis's not the right place to tell ur stupid story, go seek for spiritual advice & cleansing. Wit this ur lustful character u murdered ur husband, and bet me this young foolish boy will next in line, u'll look for another young idiot to kill. What's wrong in u gettin remarryed, or u enjoy d prostitution u're doing. Soon ur daughter will join u. Who knws how many men, who likes sugar mummys u've killed, jus for 1o mins enjoyment. If u dont repent frm ur evil ways. God is watching u.
ReplyDeleteGabriel Aka
You are a local prostitute dating a married man with children and at thesame time snatching the boyfriend of your daughter who pregnanted . Ashawo bastard like you deserved to be dealt with publicly for even exposing yourself and your daughter. Are you not ashame of committing this blunder in addition aiding your daughter into dating with a boy and you are happy, being jealous you went in to take over the boy from your daughter. You deserve to be stripped naked in the market square and publicly used by 10 boys at a stretch so as to inflict injury into your private part.
ReplyDeleteShe-goat.
Joseph
nawa for naija stupid mistake will not cease to occur in these country naija for real..J DRUMZ
ReplyDeleteWOMEN NA UNA WAY BE THAT...NO SELF RESPECT!!!!
ReplyDelete@Joseph, HABA... Learn to talk without using foul language.
ReplyDeleteAs for the rest of you who are GENERALISING WOMEN, you do realise your MOTHERS, the woman who pours blood on your head is also a WOMAN. As long as you realise that, no wahala.
It's not a new thing, just keep the baby and tell your daughter to get another man for herself... Ms K
ReplyDeleteu are very stupid nd shameless woman i dnt no wat to tell u
ReplyDeleteHow do you know for sure that your daughter's boy friend is the father of the baby.You sound like a local prostitute.You should be ashame of your self.You can not be sure who's d father of the baby unless you do DNA.Only God knows how many men you have sex with b4 you get pregnant.You bi ASHAWO proper.
ReplyDeleteAm so disapointed in u how on earth will u do such tin OMG am speechless shit happen life goes on
ReplyDeleteThis can only happen in nollywood abeg. But cum to think of it, has her daughter not ask her who is responsible? She's even proud to call him sex machine. It is only God in heaven dat can redeem u from what u are passing tru. Lizzy.
ReplyDeleteGOD WILL PUNISH U 4 THE SHAMELES ACT, U BETTER REPENT.SALKA NOAH.
ReplyDeleteCan you see these people cursing, pouring evil emotions on a piece of story.
ReplyDeleteMy God Nigeria is sad, no wonder in every corner there are more churches than banks and schools, so many people masquerading as pastors, bible bashing all in the name of deliverance while fooling these mugus.
You people need to pray to God to give you the wisdom to read a story and stop being judgemental. Ask God to give you the strength to separate yourselves from the story, so you can read it and see it for what it is.. just a Story.
Madam u hav made a bad mistake, leave ur daughter wit her man and go and seek ur pastor's advice... Linda
ReplyDeleteTOO BAD HOW CAN U DO THAT TO UR OWN CHILD?
ReplyDeleteSorry Ma'am, u are just a bitch. Wot were u thinkin? ow can u sleep with ur daughter's boyfriend? *hun* dats crazy...ladies of nowadays scares single guys like me from getting married. Dis is sad where is d world heading to...sleeping with ur own daughters bf..shame on u.
ReplyDeleteWhat an abomination act you have committed madam, the best option for you is to keep it secret to yourself and relocate immediately for scandal purpose. Pray for forgiveness and repent from your attitude and character by staying way from the guy who is responsible for the pregnancy. KayBell...
ReplyDeleteMadam 2 me wat u need is christ in ur lyf,He alone can turn our ashes 4 beauty.Giv ur lyf 2 Jesus christ so dat He can give u a new beginning,ask Him 2 wash u clean wit His blood,leave d married man alone 4 His wife and restitute ur ways by confessing 2 ur daughter asking her 2 give her life 2 to christ & she should leave d boy becos he is a confused person & does not yet know wat he wants as such she will get d best in christ,as 4d preg.leave it cos God hates murder & let d Holy spirit guide u henceforth.Remember 2 join any believing church ard & worship in a newness of lyf. God bless u.
ReplyDeleteDont let the sweet-boy slip-off your hands this might be your life time opportunity..............Let the sex machine marry both your & your daughter: nothing new ok
ReplyDeleteThe deed has already beeen done. jsut call your daaugther and let her know what is on ground. Allow her to make the decision,but do not take her boyfriend from her.Don't tell him (the BOBO) that you are pregnant. Who knows if he will marry your daughter in future. you can keep the baby just like you did for the first. Forget about what people will say cos you don't know who will burry you 2moro.
ReplyDeleteAbormination.. How could you do dat without thinking that God exhist? How mad and insane are you? That boy if you not take care will be the person to destroy your family. Do you think that a responsible inlaw will do that? You beter totaly sack the boy out of the family fou peace to rain and live a healthy family please. Jibril makarfi
ReplyDeleteWell, if her daughter refuse to let him go i mean the man her mother with the so called devil in her will kill the girl yes will kill her daughter if her daughter is not mindfully careful enough where her mother is cause she is a devil we all knew-about!
ReplyDeleteI think here that you can not discipline your desire, even when those desires are killing you, which tells you that you need an assistance not to be the devil's meat. This is a very shameful story. I guess you will continue with this same way of life even if you are staying with your husband.The only thing you need now is the help of God. You cannot get his help if you do not come to Him. Accepting Jesus as your lord and savior is the first step of being saved from the danger ahead of you. Say this words of prayer. "LORD JESUS, i am sorry for all my sins, forgive me and make me clean. I accept you as my lord and savior, lead me hence forth and give me the Godly life here on earth and after death", Amen. Dont stop here, get a bible believing church like Redeem, deeper life, the apostolic church, etc. as the lord will be leading you and put an end to being servant to your fleshy desire by serving the lord.
ReplyDeleteShame on youi
ReplyDeleteYours is not the worst sin ever, though it is shameful. write the incident on a paper or tape it and keep it. Some friends can't be trusted and some pastors couldn't too. But at least, meet a trusted pastor and narrate to him, then keep the write up and or the tape with the pastor who will later join the three of you for counselling and reconciliation. Lust let you to the young man, allow your daughter have her man. He is too young for you to have him even as a sugar mummy not to talk of marriage. Your state of depression made that married man with three kids take advantage of you. Leave the man for his wife and look unto Christ, for He alone can give you peace.
ReplyDeleteChei i go die with lafter here oooo... look at all the advice.
ReplyDeleteHow is that Nigeria is corrupt, so evil, morally bankrupt and people are here singing like angels.
It makes you wonder, if people are this good, how did nigeria sink to the pit of the earth
madam or whats so ever you will call your self i do not no, you are sounding like a woo , the common once we use to see around us , infact you are very dirty to think of and i do not belive this story at all it dose not sound real . no advice go.
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