In the last three years of marriage I've not enjoyed what a married woman should enjoy in her marriage; sex with my husband, either in the night or any other time of the day has being unimpressive.
I dont want to say much since people may see me as a sex-freak but I recently met a young man through a business partner who knows exactly how to handle a woman and satisfy her sexually.
What I'm enjoying with this guy in the last two months is what my husband cant do in about three years. Me and my husband did not have sex before our marriage and that is why I didn't discover his "incompetence" on time. Now it's obvious I can't be faithful to him any more.
I'm not a bad person but really love sex and it means a lot to me.
Please how can I leave my husband in peace and start a happy life with my newly found love without being seen as a wayward woman? Sincere advice will be appreciated. Olu Famous thanks for your help.
I'm not a bad person but really love sex and it means a lot to me.
Please how can I leave my husband in peace and start a happy life with my newly found love without being seen as a wayward woman? Sincere advice will be appreciated. Olu Famous thanks for your help.
How can u want to leave your husband cos of sex?
ReplyDeleteThat is highly irresponsible.
ENDURANCE
You will soon abandon the young boy for another one when u get tired of his own sex. Na mumu dey worry some women. Kalu
ReplyDeleteYou need to teach your husband what he doesnt know and stop sleeping with another man in the name of better sex
ReplyDeleteyou guys need not call her names.
ReplyDeletemy dear, life is more than just sex even though its a spice in every marriage. why don't you let your man know that he is not satisfying you enough, maybe you could teach him since you are more exposed.
jumping from one man to another may not solve the solution, dat can only be temporal and happiness in marriage is more than just bang bang bang.
a word is enough for the wise
Sex is very important in marriage and it is one of the major bases for divorce. In order to avoid divorce, always marry someone who has your kind of sexual appetite...Peter Ali
ReplyDeleteYour response is the most on point here....
DeleteAny man on the this thread not sexually satisfying his woman as you should do but instead brushing the "sexual" part of your relationship aside, just bet you that your woman/wife/girlfriend is fucking someone else!
We are in the age of sex revolution, it is commendable to marry and stick to one man but not getting full measure of sexual life in maariage leads to infidelity.
Shikena.
There is no amount of advice or warnings that will stop you from doing what you have already made up your mind on doing. The marriage vows have already being broken. I hope you will find happiness on the other fence because that does not seems to be important to you.
ReplyDelete1 in every 10 men have sexualy dysfunction issues.it is very common and that of your husband is not an exeption.the use of sexual enhancement drugs like viagra can help to correct the sexual libido.again,because you love sex too much,its likely the man is ok but your level of desire is insarchable.lastly sleeping with another man when your in marriage is a sacrelage which you need to go for cleansing or you will regret it.the guy outside banging you may be worst than your husband cause you dont know what he takes before jaming you(magani bura ntashi)Mike
ReplyDeleteLol.... do people actually sit down and write this shiit or do they make it up and send to olufamous so that his hard core followers will have something to write about thereby getting rid of their every day stress and frustrations.
ReplyDeleteAlternatively, it could be that people, think, how can I have fun, Oh i know let me make up a story and send to Olufamous or It could be that Olufamous writes up all these fiction to feed his demanding readers.
Woman take time,woman think,woman God is overlooking 4 u, repent do not cary earthnic things 4 granted,one day one day is ur grave & u ill give ur accout,pls woman fear God Salka noah.
ReplyDeleteDear I can understand u but pls try and find happiness in your husband. Tell him how u want it and am sure he will improve if u teach him.
ReplyDeleteMarriage is not to be endured just move on if ur husband is not capable.... Ms K
ReplyDeletelmao!
DeleteSine he's not engaged in infidelity i dont think u can get a divorce easily so u have to manage and try to help him. Linda
ReplyDeleteWoman you have no reason to cheat on ur hubby,if you cheated,it is bcos u have always wanted to cheat,there is more to marriage than sex,no matter how justified you may sound,u have been committing adultery,which is a sin,but you can till repent while you can,if your hubby seems to be inexperience and unsatisfactory, teach him how he could satisfy you.And if you do,and he isn't doing well.then you have to learn how to endure,and see a perfect man in that imperfect man(ur hubby)
ReplyDeleteKalu i was expecting to see ur comment on the issue of the pastor that impregnated his own daughter, mind how u address women in this page. Men are worsen than women in immorality. The husband shuld go and learn how to satisfy his woman. My dear dnt leave the ur husband house but always go out and satisfy ur libido. Nicole
ReplyDeleteMarriage is not about sex madam. Since u now know how to have sex, why dont u teach ur husband cos he is not impotent either. Take it or leave it ur new lover will be tired of u in ur i month of marriage.Plsss dont do any nonsense.
ReplyDeleteKalu i was expecting to see ur comment on the issue of the pastor that impregnated his own daughter, mind how u address women in this page. Men are worsen than women in immorality. The husband shuld go and learn how to satisfy his woman. My dear dnt leave the ur husband house but always go out and satisfy ur libido. Nicole
ReplyDeleteI am of the opinion that people should think before rendering advise. Why on earth should someone like Kalu calls some women mumu. Some people here doesnt make this blog interesting at all.
ReplyDeleteMy dear woman, my advise for you is to FOLLOW YOUR HEART.
Olu Famous too many lamp stories
ReplyDeleteMadam, dont be stupid, when you take your marriage vow, you said for better for worst, in health and in sickness, you will always love your husband.
ReplyDeleteBecause of sex, you have forgetting this vow you take in the house of God. Its a pity, your business partner did not love you, after he must have finish with you, you will be doomed for the rest of your life. Woman open your eyes, so that the wrought of God will not be upon you. Tell and Teach your husband the kind of sexual desire you fantasized with, so that you save your marriage. Repent before its too late. A word is enough for the wise.
It is so sad that when folks come here and start pontificating that marriage is not about sex when over 90% of married men are fucking around like a rabbit with multiple partners.
ReplyDeleteMaybe it is okay for Nigerian married women to say that because it is a kind of therapy for them to take their mind off them randy and cheating husbands. Sadly, many naija married women cannot do nothing about their state of their cheating partners as well partly because they (women) are not desirable for their partners any longer nor dateable by any dude/men hence they adopted slogan “sex don’t matter in marriage”. What a miserable life!
To the married men here saying sex is not that important in marriage, shame on you liar!
Shikena.
What is wrong with some women? To come here and expose their dirty and harlotrouse life exhibited at home and away. God forbid. Kalu is right.
ReplyDeleteThe woman in question needs to visit psychiatric hospital for reformation. She is a prostitute and I have been saying it that most women/girls/ladies fall in this group.
Joseph
Lol......... the standard of english and spelling from the critics and advisers is alarming....one wonders what these people were doing during english lessons when they were at school(probably out playing truancy and giving bad advice)....... then again judging by the standard of education in nigeria, one should not be suprised
ReplyDeleteMR/MRS LECTURER GO TO THE CLASSROOM!!!
DeleteIf I went to the classroom, you will still be missing, only to be found where you will be writing bad english with poor spelling.. lol
DeleteAll I have to tell you madam is that God disaproves adultery and divorce. Go back to God and ask him for forgiveness; do same to your husband. Then, educate him how to satisfy you sexually. Permit me to tell you that that so call lover of yours does not have the fear of God, since he does have the gult to have since with a married woman. He won't regret to abandone or even kill you tomorrow if the need be. Be wise. - NJC.
ReplyDeleteIts very hard to turn ashawo (prostitute) into a house wife.Sorry you are a prostitute and will soon leave your new guy who you claimed is very good in bed.You are not house wife type.I suggest you move to Italy to be a full time prostitute.Good luck
ReplyDeleteStory story storyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
ReplyDeleteOlu, try make these stories a bit believable, they are far fetched and only a dreamer will believe them
DeleteFORGET THAT SMALL BOY BEFORE HE RUINS YOUR MARRIAGE AND ABANDONS YOU!!!
ReplyDeleteJust come to me and I will satisfy u! My name is Amu Gbalagba and my number is 0837172345. Just call me baby!
ReplyDeleteMarriage is all abt compartibility, if ur not comfortable with ur husband is not a cream to leave, but cheating on him is a bad idear.
ReplyDeleteJust leave that your yeye husband who can not satisfy you with sex and call me if you can take my big and long dick.(18 inches be erection)I will fuck d hell out of your eyes.My name is Mallam Shehu from Kano state.My number is 08034585519.I am waiting for your phone call.
ReplyDeleteGod is an Author of cofusion, Pls don't leave ur home or marriage bcos of Sex, Yes Sex is part of instrument to keep a good marital home but Sex is not all. Pray to God that gives you this man as ur husband and help him so that you also will receieve help when you are in need of help. Good our Sex urge are different but you are there to complete ur hubby and ur hubby is there to complete remember the marriage in the bible tells us that God took a rib from man to make woman. Then you have to abandone ur home bcos Sex. If you have tried ur best and there is no change then consult medical doctor on what to do in order for ur hubby to satisfy you sexually, but better still and most importantly (1) Repent from this Sexual Sin and Embarassment (2) Pray to God that makes ur hubby if He is the that tells you to marry him bcos with God all things are possible. Even the word of God tell us " that God is the God of all flesh is there anything too hard (difficult) for Him (God) to do". 'No' God can do all thing, I mean God can do anything when you under His convenat. Remember God has the manual of ur hubby. (3) Change ur mind set about ur hubby and contivate a mind of Sexual Satisfaction towards you (4) Be patient for him in order for him understand what you are teaching and also it will take time before he will master the new level of sexual habit. (5) Show him aloot Love and Care.
ReplyDeleteI pray that God will heal ur marriage(Jer 17:14) from any plan of the Devil to destroy ur home.
Sam Larry
Woman, carry on without fear or favour. Bt b ready 2 pay d penalty. Benkada
ReplyDeleteI think the right thing for you to do is to teach that man how to do it,when he is to do it,the styles you prefer and maybe how hard you could also want it to be sometimes.i strongly believe that the man will learn and will also appreciate that.Maliaka
ReplyDeletePlease woman why don't you take good care of your husband by taking him to any herbal home for urgent/emergency medical help why abandoning him just like that or don't you also think that the boy in question in which you are running after will never be ill fore one day mined you the boy is not and can never be JESUS neither if he has power of his own be a better wife for i can see the future of that man so called your husband so brighter than the boy's own!
ReplyDeletewow brb
ReplyDeleteExcept you want somebody to die on top of you one-day!
ReplyDeletejust to damage your image
If you are the problem wont the man be sicking for help here and there for your sake please i don't want to cause you okay!
Madam pleased move on with your worthless life, as you have confess adultery, note that if your husband have sex with you again, both you and his generation will be wiped out of planet earth. This is not a curse it is certain. What is born of the flesh is flesh and what is born of the Spirit is spirit. Don’t be astonished that I told you, ‘All of you must be born from above.” Jesus says. AS FOR your sex issue, fire on with the guy until you wake up in hell. AS FOR MEN OUTTHERE IT’S ONLY A FOOL THAT WILL PUT HIS TRUTH IN A WOMAN. Lev.20:10 “If anyone commits adultery with another man’s wife, including when someone commits adultery with his neigbour’s wife, both the adulterer and the adulteress are to die.
ReplyDeletethen half the married men and women in nigeria shall dies if we go by your biblical extract.
Deletemost married men, most married women have had sex outside marriage. some women do it to raise money (prostitution) or to gain contracts or promotion.
A lot of men do it because their wife do not satisfy them, or they just become housewives and allow their body to deteriorate, no longer looking desirable or sexy - just fat and shapeless. even the mention of sex puts them off, so their man must go out to find a lover/mistress.
some men even force their wife into prostitution.
so should all these people be stoned to death.....because most of your leaders, doctors, high court judges, lawyers and top business men will be killed.
Look here by brother, If they don't repent they shall surely die, even though some of them are still alive! Lk.24;47 And that REPENTANCE and remission of sins should be preached in His name among all nations, beginning at Jerusalem. PEOPLE DIE EVERYDAY NOW IN NIGERIA, It wasn't so before.
DeleteEcc 8:12 Though a sinner do evil a hundred times, and prolong his days, yet surely I know that it shall be well with them that fear God, that fear before him:
ReplyDeleteobviously u ar a prostitute honestly. if nt y wuld u bring ur hubby out like dis? is ur marriage nt 4 beta 4 worse? oya divorce ur hubby nw n become a classical ashawo! bt remember o,prostotute na prostitute. u beta go n teach ur hubby hw 2 satisfy u in bed b4 u ruin ur life @ early stage of ur entire life. Dele
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