Early this year my mom died and my dad started making plans for me to come over to the UK when I found out I was pregnant (3months). I told my dad about it that day and he suggested I get rid of it cos it would jeopardize my chances of going to the UK and my future.
I'm confused cos I've always hated abortion and my boyfriend's a fresh graduate still searching for a job. If we decide to keep this child, we'll have money troubles. I already love this child and I don't want to do anything I'll regret.
Pls what do I do? Should I have the abortion and travel to the UK by the end of the year or have the baby (due in January) wait for sometime before I travel?
Pls what do I do? Should I have the abortion and travel to the UK by the end of the year or have the baby (due in January) wait for sometime before I travel?
First of all u are a cheap prostitute for you to get pregnant for a man that is not ur husband... tomorrow now u will come and ask ur husband for forgiveness. Born the pickin. Kalu
ReplyDeleteI think you are cheaper. You must be an animal to think the way you do. Better ask for some free psychiatric help, fool.
DeleteKalu. I am starting to pray for you. Everything wey dey comot from your mouth na rubbish. Haba!
DeleteU dont talk to people lyk dat, we r all humans for christ sake. everyone is bound to make mistake, big or small, a mistake is a mistake. Or r u saying u've neva made any mistake in ur life.
DeleteIts bcos she said her only God knows wat urs are.
Dont ever condemn anyone bcos even u r not perfect
What is even wrong with this dude sef! The girl is confused,if u don't know what to say,STFU. Punk.do u know
DeleteBabe u know d right thing to do, just do. Ms K
ReplyDeleteMy dear don't remove the baby because if you don't travel to uk today with your dad you may travel tomorrow. That baby is a blessing by mistake. The child is your happness and you life, but you have to tell the father about it. Don't kill that inoccent child.
ReplyDeleteMy dear don't remove the baby because if you don't travel to uk today with your dad you may travel tomorrow. That baby is a blessing by mistake. The child is your happness and you life, but you have to tell the father about it. Don't kill that inoccent child.
ReplyDeletePls dont touch that baby because you cant create a life. Let your father know that you will be ready to join him after delivery...wishing u all the best!
ReplyDeleteAfterall ur dad livs in a western world and he knws xup, ask urself what of if u die on de process of aborting? pls allow de innocent baby whom u dnt knw what he or she will be 2morow. in oda way round u guys get to be tinkin twice b4 ever doing doin wat so ever...tnx
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Kalu, y d insult?d lady in questn has mk a mistake n saking 4 advice must u curse or insult b4 comment i think ur comment shuld b pending 4rm here.my dear pls leave d baby n forgo d travel life is percious God in is mercy wil carter 4 u n ur baby
ReplyDeleteBaby why! Why pregnant without engagement. Have u tht the is really bastard. Anyway, nobody is above mistake. Talk to your dad and much to the father of that child, ok. Deliever baby before travel to the UK.
ReplyDeletekalu u're mad oo.
ReplyDeleteDon't ever terminate d preagnance because is a sin before God Almighty deliver d baby n join ur daddy later,the child may be ur only child on earth be warn a word is enough for a wise
ReplyDeleteIt just some few comment above are sensible, pls girl go beg God 4 forgiveness first, then forgive ur self for removing ur underwear, u know babies are free gift frm God what gives u assurance if u abort this u will have another child in future pple will abuse u today but it will be a gain for u in future. Pray to God to touch ur dad heart if really he want to help. Pls go tell d father of the baby better still the parents blc u are not in this alone. Best of luck girl.
ReplyDeleteplease do not abort that child, you never know he/she will become tomorrow.
ReplyDeleteJust be brave, everything will work at well for you, only if you are truly sorry for your actions(fornication) and ask God for guidance.
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U have d baby and travel laterUr BF must do everything,even it means pushing truck to get money for u and ur babies upkeep! Now u see why parents advise against being pregnant b4 marriage. It is not an easy responsibility,especially for an unempLoyed man!
ReplyDeletethe rit thing is for u to keep d baby and give birth. If uk later comes up. Go but if not, go on wt ur life nd husband. Put ur shade cos i can see ur future is very bright.
ReplyDeleteThough the mistakes had been made by you on the onset, the only way you can correct it is to spare the child,don't commit any abortion. After the delivery of the child,you may decide to go and meet your dad later. Ask 4 forgivess of ur sin from God and forgive urself also.
ReplyDeleteI am a father and i hav good plans which 'am praying 2 God 2 make dem a reality on my children. In dis case if 'am ur father, i will disown u 4 messing me be4 God and people,and 4 telling me dt u are nt concerned about ur future. But ur father is a mumu like u dat is y he is asking u 2 commit anoda sin with d one u already comited.
ReplyDeleteThis is the scenario for u Mister, ur daughter gets pregnant, u disown her,she probably gets an abortion,or has the child,and suffer cos dere's no fund and no love, Maybe dies, you don't think u are as mumu as the father that asked the daughter to abort! Pls parents ya'all stop making iSsues worse. Whilst she'll learn from her mistake, we shouldn't also punish d innocent baby that will be born! A litu support, luv and care will mk a huge difference.
DeleteAtiku, ur are not talking because to err is human and to forgive is divine. The mistake has been made and disowning her is not the way forward, yes the father is wrong to have ask her to go for abortion which is not a good option. Make sure you train up your children with your wife together so that they will not be exposed to some urgly situations. As for you baby girl, ask God for mercy and He will see you through till delivery and if u continue to lean on God, He will make away for you where there seem to be no way.
Deleteyou know what i will advise you not to remove this baby,and another thing is that if you don't go to UK today doesn't mean your chance of travelling out has ended okay pls don't abort this pregnacy okay.
ReplyDeleteGive birth and plead wit ur dad to carry u and ur guy along, afterall u love him to have got pregnant for him. Mrs OJ
ReplyDeleteKalu needs to find another job besides commenting in pieces on here,I think this platform should be moderated for comments like this,I don't think it is right for anyone to judge any other person's action as regards relationship particularly,one man's food is another's poison because your views are different from the girl in the picture does not give a cause to abuse the girl,a 20 years old girl is an adult marriage or no marriage and it is not anyone's concern if she's pregnant after all her boyfriend is a graduate with hope of life.Abusing someone that seeks your advice seem to me like one is a confused person himself.I hope owner of this platform regulates what people say in this kind of case.
ReplyDeleteThanks
D only comment i hav 2 mke here is on d idiot dat displayed hs ignorance by abusin d gurl. I jst pray dt 1 day, u wil hav a little sense snc obviously, u r lacking dat ryt nw
ReplyDeleteKalu nothin gud eva com 4rm ur mouth.Instead of u 2 advise ha or shut ur stupid mouth up u re busy insultin ha.Dnt 4get u ve sisters & u wil end up havin daughters,nobody is above mistake & pray one of ur own wil not end up doing d same thing.My dear lady pls keep d baby.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry that the people advising you here to ignore your father's instruction will not assist you financially throughout the nine months u are expected to carry the pregnancy and deliver the baby. In the first instance you fooled yourself into prostitution and people advised you to come here and make ur case worse for you.Terminate it simple and join ur father if you are trully sincere with what I read here b/cos ur father still love you. Not all fathers can tolerate this nonsense from their daughters. I believe your is a good man. By the time you are undergoing the whole sufferings these people here will not be around to help you and your so called boyfriend will take to his heel. For further assistance visit my facebook profile and get my number, then call
ReplyDeleteFirst n foremost, I want to advice pple who av bn abusing/insultin Kalu 4 insultin d lady in question to desist as 2 wrongs cannot make a right. Pot shuldn't b calling kettle black.@ Atiku Alonge, ur case is like aving a cut 4rm a sharp knife & throwing d knife away. It has wrecked a havoc & inflicted pain ,throwing it away won't reverse d situation. To d lady, do u know how many children u're destined to av? Do u know which wil stick to u in ur dieing days wen u become old? Do u kno wat d unborn child would bcom(positively) in future. Surely,ds isn't d 1st time u're copulating bt may be ur 1st pregnancy! So ask urself, why??? If u decide to terminate d pregnancy n die in d process or some complications evolves. Wat shal it profit a man who gains d world n loses his own life?If u'r destined to travel overseas n be fulfilled/successful there,surely it'l come to pass. Travellin abroad doesn't guarantee success. The most important thing here is ur fiance's stand. Let his mum(parents) be aware. Ask 4 4gvnes, favor,mercy,blessing. Gud luck.
ReplyDeleteFirst n foremost, I want to advice pple who av bn abusing/insultin Kalu 4 insultin d lady in question to desist as 2 wrongs cannot make a right. Pot shuldn't b calling kettle black.@ Atiku Alonge, ur case is like aving a cut 4rm a sharp knife & throwing d knife away. It has wrecked a havoc & inflicted pain ,throwing it away won't reverse d situation. To d lady, do u know how many children u're destined to av? Do u know which wil stick to u in ur dieing days wen u become old? Do u kno wat d unborn child would bcom(positively) in future. Surely,ds isn't d 1st time u're copulating bt may be ur 1st pregnancy! So ask urself, why??? If u decide to terminate d pregnancy n die in d process or some complications evolves. Wat shal it profit a man who gains d world n loses his own life?If u'r destined to travel overseas n be fulfilled/successful there,surely it'l come to pass. Travellin abroad doesn't guarantee success. The most important thing here is ur fiance's stand. Let his mum(parents) be aware. Ask 4 4gvnes, favor,mercy,blessing. Gud luck. Yormie
ReplyDeleteI hope U read this: So great men today like the Popular Israel Houghton, "Alpha & Omega Song" was supposed to be aborted but, the then mother resused.......Don't Abort greatness. But nevertheless, you (may or may not) suffer. All depends on what God permit. I'd advice you to be careful. What if U die in d process of abortion. Pls. Keep it even if he does not marry you. Money will surely come. I guess U should forget about your Dad's wealth and face God for HELP. IF U have more questions mail me @[email protected].
ReplyDeleteALL SHALL BE Well in Jesus Name