It continue till I finished my secondary skool n lukily for me I gained admission into one of the university in the eastern part and there my problem continued again.
After 5yrs of my encounter, I fell in love wit this guy in same skul wit me same level bt different faculty, at first it was so beautiful loving him but at a point it went sour coz he started beating me weneva he is angry n at most times will force himself on me afta d beatings...
I wud cry n say I will never 4give him atmost time I will call it quit but wen he asks for forgiveness I wil stupidly forgive him, most times I wonder if I am under a charm or wot... Datz nt were it stopped, I became pregnant, I told him and he said he is not ready to be a father that I shud abort it which I agreed.
I aborted it and it affected me academically coz I did it afta my 1st semester yr 2 exams, I cried and ask God 2 forgive n told him that I dnt want the relationship again and he pleaded wit me that infact no more sex I agree n believed in him bt it was all a lie coz rite now I've done the 3rd abortion and yet stil in luv wit him even afta ma pastor told me that I dont have a future wit him and that he will destroy me and ma future and leave me for anoda girl...
Plz I nid help coz I am running mad, diz whole thing is affecting me badly both academically... Wot do I do course some part of me still want to be with diz guy bt life n future is astake."
- SANDAR
Can't u use a condom
ReplyDeleteYou better listen to ya pastor before its too late coz dat dude is only interested in ur puna. EBERE
ReplyDeleteYOU NEED SERIOUS DELIVERANCE
ReplyDeleteYou need to break off that guy. Listen to your Pastor. What are you thinking, that after 3 abortions he will marry you. That's a big lie from the pit of hell. Most guys don't marry girls they've messed up. The seek greener pastures with clean girls. You are yoked with this guy. You need to get on your knees, sort out your life with your God and move on. There is absolutely no future with this dude of yours. So a word is enough for the wise. Run as fast as you can from this relationship. I pray that God will give you the strength to make the right decision. No only is he sleeping with you, he's also abusing you by beating you constantly. O girl, RUN>
ReplyDeleteYou need more than deliverance my dear.
ReplyDeletelisten to your pastor find a way to end that relationship plsssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss i beg u for you destiny sake.
ReplyDeleteArbotion is a grievious sin b4 God n man.4 lurin u in2 dt he is a devil,he deserves no mercy bt still he nids repentance.u r alive or dead 2day is him n in ur hands tek a decision on leavin him lyk ur pastor prophesied initally else he will lead u hell.ask God fo 4giveness n repentance cos He sees wat u r goin tru,He is waitin fo ur return.He said 'kum 2 me u dt r heavily burdened n I will give u rest' u r far from God,draw near to Him n He will provide ur genine man nw dt its nt late. May God help u overcome dis...Amen.
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NOT ONE, NOT TWO UP TO THREE AND U STILL NEED GOD TO COME DOWN AND ADVICE U. NO WAY, ITS ONLY THOSE WHO MAKE FIRST MISTAKE THAT NEED ADVISE NOT SOME ONE WHO HAS FIND PLEASURE IN IT. ADVICE UR SELF AND IF U THINK U ARE NOT STILL THROUGH WITH THE ABORTION, THEN CONTINUE. BUT AM NOT SURE IF U WILL SURVIVE THE FOURTH ABORTION. TAKE AS A PROPHESY
ReplyDeleteWhat are u thinking staying wt a guy who physically and emotionally abuses u when he is just sleeping with u.Think of what will happen when u get married to him.Seek restitution with ur God for those abortions and move on with ur life.Read the hand writing on the wall,listen to ur pastor cos a stitch in time saves nine.
ReplyDeletePLS you need to visit tb joshua 4 deliverance !
ReplyDeleteCommon grl, wot ar'u thinkin?? Quit & stand by ur wrd. D fake one hz 2 go 4d real one 2cm in. Dont think twice, RUN 4ur life, its vry vry precious & ve no duplicate. Above all, stay away 4rm pre-marital sex & gv ur life 2 God completely. Only in Him u'll find eternal love, peace of mind, happiness & above all, a bright future. Sonia.
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ReplyDelete1,2 and 3 abortions committed while flirting yourself with someone. I'm sure he wasn't the only person that messed you up into three abortions. You have not said the truth about you. He beats you up b/cos you flirt about. You are not sincere in your revelation. Does it mean you don't have brain of reasoning to allow three pregnancies to catch up with you before confession? You are a prostitute. Don't you have parents to call you to order? Or have you been engaging yourself for commercial ? You are a liar attempting to paint yourself immaculate whereas you are sacrilegious before God and humanity. Maybe the pastor had tested you too before his advice. You are a Dog.
ReplyDeleteSeek for forgivenes of yr sin n concernin d guy he has notin to offer u
ReplyDeletePls i beg u in Jesus' name, flee from this bondage. Listen to ur Pastor and be focus on issues that ll make u useful to urself and ur world today and tomorow. God be merciful to u and show u His love. I pray for u.
ReplyDeleteRun for your life girl. He is out to destroy you.
ReplyDeletestupid. What kind of help do you want? You want God to advice you? If you reject knowledge, you have setup yourself for hard life.
ReplyDeleteYou need to quit the guy and heal emotionally,psychologically and spiritually disconnect from every soul tie , you are such a beautfiful girl ,no one would know you have had any abortions let alone lost your virginity, As a woman you must be valued and treated kindly , hence no man has any right to hit you whatsoever let alone force their way into you .It is a shame you have suffered in the hands of so many and my heart bleeds for you .Love has no monopoly .You have to trust God for your true soul mate but you really have to heal totally before you can make good because you have been abused seriously, but no damage is beyond repair by Gods grace.It is even possible to do some medical re-adjustment surgery on your lower private region such that it would be as new although that would be pricey.You are a survivor, a bright future is yours , don't make yourself a punching bag, no man has any right to just rip you open and use you for his sensual pleasures and then beat you on top of it.God made you so special but you have to believe this.A woman has a open her laps before a man get there and a womans private region is below her hence she decides what happens who gets to her knickers and who doesn't.You do not have to give yourself over to be used by anyone ,get help ,get good friends ,get a physical hobby , work on your grades your degree is more impoartant than just any random man who has no clue on how to love and care for a woman.In your best interest quit this destructive relationship before he kills you .You are better alive than dead.So many women have died needlessly in the hands of wicked and evil men.God Bless you .Your scripture to read is Psalms 138 verse 13-18.
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ReplyDeleteu dont need a deliverance but overhauling. U were raped and now you are suffering from the problem of sex and wht it created. U need to get going on wt life, ds guy will only succeed in ruining ur life. Ur pastor has warned u, run.
ReplyDeleteAlmost very one has said it all.Now what is left for you to do is to pick points from all comments regarding your situation.Pray over it using psalm 51.seek God's face first and then follow the words of your pastor.Is well with you in Jesus name,Amen.
ReplyDeleteThis story is sad, though you've sin to God go and beg for forgiveness and cast all ur burden on to Him, he will show u the way.
ReplyDeleteAm not happy 4 ur story but I'm happy that you have made the right step by seeking advice. First, you have to give the relationship up even though you have the whole world to loose, it doesnt matter. Then go to a Deliverance Ministry e.g Mountain of Fire. And you have to submit urself to God and ask 4 genuine repentance. Sometimes we are not responsible for our actions - the devil is, but u have to watch and pray so these demons dont take control of you.
ReplyDeleteBeyounce knowles - the popular singer once said "When I am on stage, something takes control of me and I am no longer myself but Sasha Fierce". I know very well that ur actions have been in control of the devil but u must not allow him to ruin you, your life and ur career.
It is not a matter of going to T.B. Joshua 4 deliverance and after two or three weeks you will go back to fornication. You have to accept Jesus christ as ur Lord and personal saviour. Touching someone on the head and the person rolls to the ground is not enough for ur case. It is a continuos thing if u have really made up ur mind not to go back to sin. May God help you and show you the right way to follow, Amen.
somtims i wonder wat some girls think. You are n love wiv a guy that abuses u every time. May be dats wat u like abt him who knows, but my little advice for u is to get closer to God and u will see u deserve better than dat. You are gloriously nd wonderfully made and again pls get ur self esteem back its very important.
ReplyDeleteyoung lady'
ReplyDeleteAn adage says 'The dog that will be lost will never hearken to the wistle of the hunter'. In-fact, I don't have to be a pastor to know that hell is about to swallow you up. It is obvious that the blood of the innocent babies you aborted is crying against you for vegeance. Your relationship with the boy is a high way to the grave. You are being influenced by LUST and not LOVE. If you don't listen to God, through your pastor, more doom, calamity and sorrows are waiting for you in future. IF YOU HAVE EARS LISTEN TO WARNINGS FROM YOUR PASTOR!
the only sin that God can not 4get is a hidden sin. now that you've made your case known, and u're ready to repent, pls heed ur pastor's advise. go to any mfm assembly for deliverance. God is going to use u in future to turn many destinies back to God. may the blood of Jesus heal your wounds.
ReplyDeleteWhich advice u dey luk 4 again? I beg run before he kill u and go 4anoda lady.
ReplyDeleteMY DEAR SORRY, BUT YOU ARE CRAZY!!!. MIGHT NOT SOUND OK TO U AND OTHERS BUT ITS THE TRUTH. WHEN AN ANSWER IS ALREADY IN UR PALMS. YOU ARE WASTING AWAY. IF REALLY THE PIX I SAW IS OF YOU THEN IN ADDITION TO WHAT I SAID IS THAT YOU ARE MAD. AS PRETTY AS U ARE. IN FACT U ARE FOOLISH. DON'T MEAN TO INSULT YOU BUT TO CHALLENGE YOU........ SOMEONE ELSEWHERE WILL STAKE HIS LIFE TO KEEP YOU SAFE BUT SOME CAMELLION IS TRYING TO CUT YOUR LIFE SHORT AND YOU STILL CAN'T OPEN UP YOUR EYE WIDER THAN EXPECTED TO SEE....... YOU BETTER DO THAT THING THAT IS PRICKING YOUR HEART RIGHT NOW IF NOT, YOU WILL DIE AND LIFE GOES ON MY DEAR. WE LOVE YOU AND SO GOD TOO. BY THE WAY, TRY TO STAY ALIVE INSTEAD OF DEAD........ [email protected]
ReplyDeleteYou had enough help but you wouldn't accept it why now?
ReplyDeleteThe book of revelation says God almighty will bring to ruin all those ruining the earth-that young man who beats up this innocent girl for sex on compulsion and knowin the implication of abortion has allowed this girl done 3 abortion, wit the intention of abscounding to marry someone else will be judged-wat goes up comes down, wat ever a man soweth he would reap. This is some reason why a lot of guys aint succeedin in life no matter their level of education, they aint gonna find good. Aiit, girl, I understand how much love has cost this innocent girl but the guy takin advantage of this is satanic and wickedly. Little girl, don't wait for prophesy before u quit especially after this public advice & strenthenin. Bikooo!
ReplyDeleteFrom your story, you dont need any sweet Sayer before you know what to do. Its that kind of man you wish to live your entire life with? A man that do turn you to punching bag, aborted for you three times, oh no. Let me tell you, such a man is just using you to catch his fun. If you are in any relationship, you should be able to define what the relationship is meant for. Please leave him.
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