I don’t know how to open up to my friend because it is a thing of disgrace, although it’s not really my fault… Her husband is the father of my two kids, and we both love each other, since he said he's ready to cater for us till end of our lives.
I’ve told my friend before that I slept with different men who got me pregnant (without them knowing) just so I could have my own kids since no man was ready to marry me and age was no longer on my side.
I’m increasingly finding it uncomfortable being around her in recent times, so much so that I feel like telling her the truth so that I can have a rest of mind. I also wish to become a member of the family of the father of my children, afterall he has been sleeping with me like a wife.
How can I go about it without causing more troubles? Please your candid advise will be highly appreciated.
- A single mother of two in confusion.
I’m increasingly finding it uncomfortable being around her in recent times, so much so that I feel like telling her the truth so that I can have a rest of mind. I also wish to become a member of the family of the father of my children, afterall he has been sleeping with me like a wife.
How can I go about it without causing more troubles? Please your candid advise will be highly appreciated.
- A single mother of two in confusion.
The woman is a prostitute judging by her dressing and she just want to destroy another woman's house. Mrs OJ
ReplyDeleteWhat makes u think she's the one in the picture?Do u know her personally?
DeleteThere is nothing there just tell her and move in, afterall u can be the second wife. Two children is not a small thing. Kalu
ReplyDeletekalu u are mad, u want to brake another mans house, woman u are ashawo, pls just tell them the truth but dont be part of the family, u want to turn a happy home to trouble home.........soj
ReplyDeleteHow could you? U did it the first time, still didn't realise. Now u've had another and want to cause confusion in your friend's marriage. I'd advise you to move far away from your present location and probably get on with your life without the man. Pete
ReplyDeletePleas Mrs OJ do not judge her yet but try and tell her the truth as it is with fairness. There are some truths that are not supposed to be made open and this is one of such truths. This lady may have been enjoying her friend's husband without thinking of the consequences. My advice is that you (the lady in question) should not desire going into the same house or being a member of the same family that you are about to wreck. Your desire to be part of the family of your father's children shows that your intention was not right from the beginning. Thanks.
ReplyDeleteYou need deliverance fast. Ay
ReplyDeleteCome you better forget about another woman's husband and go look for your own. Maybe the man was lying to u and he may soon get tired of u and move. So move on yourself b4 dat happens. my two cents. \
ReplyDeleteNancy 4rm Lagos
A sachet of pure water is more expensive than you.
ReplyDeleteYou are about to destroy someone's home. U wanted to have children and it had to be your friends husband. You should be satisfied with your children and leave her alone. Because your telling her will yield no good.
ReplyDeleteCome let me give u a third one and after we will go and tell ur friend!
ReplyDeletecan kalu just keep shut his senseless brain so dat he can reason like a normal human being for once. your comments are always disgusting
ReplyDeleteShame on u?so among the whole men on earth is only ur frnd husband u choose to sleep with.is better u go far away from them cus if u go that house n destroy there peace there,u ur self u will never have peace all the days of ur life.very wicked human being n u still go to ur frnd n pretend to be a good frnd God will judge u for this act.
ReplyDeleteMrs OJ, your dressing depicts the kind of person you are. I think you are a wayward type, may be you dont have a good home training. You may be a street girl. How can you sleep with your friend's husband and have two kids for him. Are you out of your mind? If you destroy your friend's home, you will be destroyed in the process. Better stay clear, move away from that location to another location and decide from today not to do anything with the man, so that God can open a way for you.
ReplyDeleteThinking of moving in is not right because is going to cause more problems for u and your children. my advice is you going to far away where the man will never see u again since ur initial intention was to have children because of age was no longer on ur side.
ReplyDeleteSince no man wants to marry u like u said,why do u want to break ur friend's home,why do u want to frustrate her like urself.As if sleeping with and having children with her husband is not enough for u.Thinking of moving in with them should be the last thing on ur mind if u didn't set out to snatch her husband from the beginning.Enjoy the attention the man is giving u for the sake of his children while it lasts cos soon u will be on your own.
ReplyDeleteHey!!! shi e sweet wen una do am...........pls!!! dnt even think of going there, move/run... tell the childn weit dey. may wen d men die u carry 'em...Na big problem u dey so. bettr still ur kill yourself....na big shame b ds....it means you can even sleep with ur own son......yes! kfil
ReplyDeleteSo nobody is saying anything 2 d man.Did d woman impregenant herself,d man is now a hero abi.
ReplyDeleteWithin u, u knew u were doing sumtin wrong by sleeping with the man then u went ahead 2 get pregnant 4 him which u cant say was a mistake cos afterall u'v been sleepn with men b4 hw cum u didnt get pregnant 4 them u only saw ur so called friend's husband as the potential father of ur kids. U r wicked. To put in plane language u are nt worthy to be called a friend and u r disspeakeble. And as 4 the man u r stupid cos even if she seduced u dont u hv an atom of self control or respect 4 ur wife. U both are just pathetic. Y did u even cum here to seek advice, have u no shame? U better ask God 4 forgiveness and confess 2 d poor woman who thinks she has a friend in u. If she forgives u, thank ur stars but if she doesnt u deserve it.
ReplyDeletehmmmmmmmmmmmm. short of words.
ReplyDeleteKnowing that your man have an affair to other woman is so painful,thinking all those years being with him was all happy moments then all of the sudden its just spoil by other woman.Im talking based from my experience i tried my best to talk with the woman but then she is the one who have guts to curse my family and generation..I talked with her nicely and civil but she answered me im not the one who can stop on loving my man..sending even naked photos and all save by me.She is a student at ABSU...
ReplyDeleteNo mata, wateva gud advice given 2 ds woman, she won't take it. She's like a dog destined 2 go astray,it won't heed the call of d hunter. Her mind is made up,wat made her indulge in it in d 1st place won't make her see any logical reason y she shouldn't move in2 d man's house. If she didn't do it now sooner or later she wil. A time wil come wen d man wil attempt to integrate d children into d family,wat do u expect her to do? If d man happens to b rich n successful, d lady may want to prove 2 d world dat d man belongs to her n dats wen "yawa wil gas"! Yes, a man can take mo dan a wife if he can afford take care of dem,religion apart let's be frank n sincere wt ourselves,provided he does it in d proper way. But not like ds. This is adultery of d highest order!
ReplyDeleteNo mata, wateva gud advice given 2 ds woman, she won't take it. She's like a dog destined 2 go astray,it won't heed the call of d hunter. Her mind is made up,wat made her indulge in it in d 1st place won't make her see any logical reason y she shouldn't move in2 d man's house. If she didn't do it now sooner or later she wil. A time wil come wen d man wil attempt to integrate d children into d family,wat do u expect her to do? If d man happens to b rich n successful, d lady may want to prove 2 d world dat d man belongs to her n dats wen "yawa wil gas"! Yes, a man can take mo dan a wife if he can afford take care of dem,religion apart let's be frank n sincere wt ourselves,provided he does it in d proper way. But not like ds. This is adultery of d highest order! Yormie
ReplyDeleteWhatever God have joined together,let no one put asunder.This is the words of almighty God and not mine.And the word of God goes on to say....for that,a man will leave his family and marry woman.......(a man and a woman...and not a man and women,very very important).Therefore madam,you have already gone against the saying in God's words.Just repent of your deeds,ask God for forgiveness,go far away from your friend,never you try that which is in your mind and finally,meet your friend's husband no more.
ReplyDeleteYou need Jesus In ur Life,see how u are dres
DeleteIf you can sleep with the husband secretly and having two kids without letting your friend know, you can as well keep the secret by taking care of your kids secretly. Thunder fire that your toto wey you wan take destroy your friend happiness
ReplyDeleteam happy with your answer
Deletemy own advice for you is to ask God for forgiveness and mercy because you have already destroyed your friend home,elther now or in the nearest future the truth is going to prevail,her friend she going to know in the nearest future,possible after the death of the husband or the husband will reveail the secret by himself to his wife .one way or the other this man have already brake his own matrimonial home GOD will have mercy upon them.
ReplyDeleteHome-beaker, how could you? your own friend for that matter. It's just a ploy to snatch your friends husband. If you were your friend,would you allow your friend to take or share your husband? Nevertheless, the shameful so called father has to accept responsibility. Home- breaker, that's what you are.
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